Hehe I'm shy too alright, but the only difference is that I'm a girl.
What i want to say is, i get you.
And in my opinion, the first step to building confidence in your case is to go and talk to girls. Take the risk. I know it is fudging scary as heck but try to step out of your comfort zone. Start with texting first. Online, it is a whole lot easier to be yourself because you get time to think how to respond and stuff. That is why i think you should start texting, and then slowly progressing towards proper interactions in real life.
I texted my crush yesterday for the first time for stuff other than school work, and he was kind enough to respond with so much enthusiasm and interest. He's a shy dude too, by the way.
So, id suggest you do the same. Start texting, and then interacting in real life. Smile, and talk about what interests you, ask the other person questions, show interest in them, take them name in conversations and make eye contact in moderation. I hope it helps, bro ✨
Don't worry too much, i have a feeling you don:-D
God bless you and your loved ones ✨
Good luck
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I know this isn’t the answer you’re looking for, but I promise you, it’s important. You simply talk to women… like they’re people. Seriously, imagine you were talking to someone who was already your friend and that’s really it. Don’t put up a bunch of fancy airs, don’t stare at them like they’re an alien, and most importantly, don’t expect romance just bc you were nice to them.
The more time you spend around women, the quicker you realize you’re not that different from them so think about how you would like to be treated if a stranger came up to talk to you.
Just be calm and ask them questions about themselves or talk about a hobby you enjoy. Don't put pressure on yourself to start a conversation or keep it rolling if it goes nowhere or seems close to an end, be okay with silence if it comes to it.
Most importantly, have fun and have no expectations when it comes to the talks. Just go in let loose and be you. Keeps you authentic.
I'm super awkward and I'm very aware of it but at the same time I'm very charming with girls... It's because I don't try... I think it's either someone likes me or not.. And girls love it when you're natural and not trying too hard...
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Get her to talk about what she's interested in and get on cam a random chat that's not porn related! Talk and practice.
Honestly young guys start repeating quick online so I prefer older even dirt old Lol 😆About topics you’re interested in. Her views on different topics that you think are important.
Talk to them and don't be awkward about it
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