What to do if you don’t want to break up with your boyfriend because you feel empty?

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I dating for a year and now I’m on long distance relationship. I don’t talk to anyone that much in my family but I talked to him a lot. He’s like my friend, family and boyfriend even tho I know he did me wrong in many ways.

WalkingInTheRain7 · Accepted Answer

Your loneliness in the absence of him is a separate issue. Which isn't healthy, especially not if you remain with him because you feel empty or alone. Really you need to determine why you feel this way, whether loneliness, or otherwise. But, you shouldn't remain with him simply because you believe you'll feel lonely without him, that isn't natural or right. It can even be described as self destructive.

I don't know of you know God, but, if you do, seeking Him on this and finding sufficiency in Him would be the best thing for you to do.

I would say that you need to find the source of why you feel empty inside, address it, and decide what you want to do about your boyfriend. Whether to stay with him, or to go, for the betterment of you both.

IMuser · Accepted Answer

The first thing to do is actually breakup: are you so desperate for attention?

Second, learn to live alone. You don't always need someone to talk to (even if you do, just join discord channels, online chat rooms)

ItsMeElliana · Accepted Answer

focus on yourself first now, just do things that make you happy, do self care, learn to love yourself and remember your self worth.

fancan · Accepted Answer

never put all your energy into a man!!! always keep current relationships unless it’s toxic! learned the hard way

Waldoe · Answer

Men... are not as good as women... we are weak and are easily distracted... a man can get a different woman pregnant every day of the week, sometimes 2 a day... a woman gets pregnant, has a baby, feeds the baby, raises the baby and forgets the man... he finds another woman... they say that this is God's Great Plan, I do not understand it, it is FAILING women and children

mark000h · Answer

If he did you wrong and you are lonely, why are you still in a relationship with him?

DangItBobby · Answer

Maybe that’s the problem; you’ve put so much focus on him that you should’ve focus more on yourself.

DiegoO · Answer

That just means you are not ready to be in a healthy relationship.

SignedAutographs · Answer

That sounds like something a therapist would be for. I see one myself and it helps tremendously

cummer6972 · Answer

Let him walk. You're 18 and beautiful. You'll have another one the next day

JoyGirl · Answer

What did he do wrong?

Anonymous · Answer

What to do if you DON'T feel empty.  Hmmmmmm

Abdulwahh · Answer

Long distance is not always worth it

In_Trance · Answer

... you... break up?

Anonymous · Answer

How did he do you dirty in the past?

Anonymous · Answer

Bir sorun varsa neden o adamla birliktesin?

jahaims · Answer

Have self respect.

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