I have a crush on my classmate. Should I confess?

[Anonymous]

She is my classmate and we are really good friends. I look worse than avarege. We talk all the time and our friendship is really good.

[SueShe]

If your friendship is really good, ask yourself the following question:

"Is my friendship worth ruining by involving feelings"?

A friendship is usually ruined when you do involve feelings because you will not see the friend the same way anymore. Once your relationship has failed (and it will at your age), then your friendship is lost forever.

Therefore, what has higher priority in your mind? A lasting friendship but without feelings or a short lived relation AND a ruined relation afterwards?

Also, I don't know your age but how much longer is this friend going to share classes with you? If it is for the next 6 months only, then I suggest you keep your friendship because you don't know where her path will lead her.

[AvaOneLasTime]

You better try. If anything, even if she rejects you, you will learn to try until you succeed.

[Anonymous]

Try to find out how she feels about you first before jeopardizing the friendship. You could ask if she ever thinks the two of you could be more than friends.

[Iron_Man]

Of course what are you waiting for

[In_Trance]

Yup do it