Should I confess to my crush?

[Nandor]

I wanted to send her this, should I send it?
''I need to ask you something and I want you to be totally honest with me. It might be awkward with us after this but I have to know how you feel. I have kept this in for a while and its about time I was straight up and just confront you about it. I hope this doesn't ruin the relationship we already have, and I just need to know and I can't see any other way to get over this just doesn't seem fair on me if I don't get an answer. I want to tell me truthfully, no matter what it is. I just want your honest answer... can a fish drown?''

Yes confess to her

Dont do it

Updates

+1 y

How many of you actually read it to the end?

[Anonymous]

As a dude I'm going to tell you right now this type of message RARELY works. The girls will say it's romantic just like they think romcoms are romantic.

Reality is not the same. When a woman is on the receiving end of this "romance" 9/10 they are creeped out. Just tell her you're not interested in being friends and you'd rather date and then pick a specific time and activity to go on a date about. Girls like the fantasy of a guy confessing his feelings. Girls are creeped out by the reality of a guy confessing his feelings.

I'm genuinely trying to be a good wingman to you right now. The world can suck at times so I'm not going to give you false hope. I'm trying to give you some realistic advice on how reality works versus what girls watch as a third party observer. Women feel vastly different when they're the ones on the receiving end of these notions than they are when they are watching it as a bystander.

[Anonymous]

Are you trying to be funny? Asking a question is not a confession.

[Nandor]

I confessed my question. Why so mad by the way

[Opinion Owner]

Look up the definition of "confession".

[Nandor]

Salt much? Its just a joke. Are you butthurt because you had to read?

[debi2622]

You need to tweak it, as you actually confess nothing to her. Edited. And simplified. Good luck!!!

''I wanted to tell you that I have had a crush on you for the longest time. I couldn't hold it in any longer, and had to tell you of my crush in the off chance you might like me in return. If you like me back, just text me with 'i like you too' If you don't feel the same, I still want you as my friend. Test me 'you are still my friend', and I will understand. Never want there to be awkwardness with us, but it would be a shame if we liked each other and no one told the other. You are worth taking that risk on.''

[Nandor]

But thats no fun:(

[debi2622]

Didn't realize you were just looking for fun. I would have thought that making what you tell her clear would be important. You handle how you want. I was just pointing out what I was not reading in yours, which was the actual confession. Good luck!!!

[Nandor]

Thank you

[Tiffstarr]

DON’T DO IT OVER TEXT. And just be straight forward with her don’t play any riddles or talk for so long. Just tell her how you feel and if she feels the same way back great. If she doesn’t you’ll be fine. Since you’re only 18 (guessing from your profile)

[Nandor]

Did you even read everything?

[Sociopathvictim]

you can tell the attention span of a girl is exactly 25seconds, the other 5seconds was the joke part. LOL even my crush fell for it, she couldnt read the entire thing before she messaged. Anyway you do need to tell me what to say next as I've left her hanging ;D

[Nandor]

Me or her?

[Sociopathvictim]

@Nandor you obviously

[Nandor]

Her reaction should have been "you asshole" I dont know whats next

[Sociopathvictim]

she won't tell me something she already knows ^.^

[Nandor]

Maybe she bought a strap and its her surprise for you

[Sociopathvictim]

goodluck to her then

[Nandor]

No to you

[Sociopathvictim]

im armed with a Darth Maul double sided lightsaber.

[Nandor]

She will force it down

[Sociopathvictim]

my crush isn't like yours :P

[Logorithim]

Do you really have no idea how she feels? You're crossing the Rubicon here.

[Desconhecida]

The answer is yes. Fishes can drown. It happened with my pet golden fish... swear to Thor!

[Pennypolish]

OMG wait a second. My guy friend just sent me somthing similair. It said "i've been holding this in for a long time. Im just going to say it, and I hope you understnad. I just can't hold it anymore..."

"... what is your favorite food?"

lol so does this mean he's crushing on me or being silly?

[ajeewastaken]

it can be both 😂

[Pennypolish]

Hmmm wonder if he is crushing.

[kingwolf]

It may be what I call "poking", doing small things to gauge interest. Poke him back, see where it goes.

[TheRedLemon]

If you don`t do it you may really really regret it sometimes when you remeber that person, just not knowing the answer is enough to dread yourself. You can`t loose too much if you tell her so i say go for it. Also confess is a very nice word, probably why i never use it. Even tough she rejected me she said she tought it was really sweet when i confessed my feelings for her. It sounded so nice. I don`t deserve those words. Alright, i got carried off track, i bid you farewell and wish you luck.

[TheRedLemon]

no... just.. no. don`t say you`re going to be straight up and then say something like that at the end. just say you like her or have a crush on her.

[Aguysopinion4799]

Yes, also, yes a fish can drown ^_^

If you drag a fish backwards underwater, the water goes inside the gills and drowns them, this is why if you are attacked by sharks the apparent things you should do is
"Punch on the sharks nose as it is very sensitive"
I don't know were I am going with this XD but yes, a fish can drown :)

[Sociopathvictim]

mate I've just sent this to my crush and here is the response ;D
within 30seconds LOL
"eh what?"
"yes a fish can drown?"
(I READ IT BUT didn't REPLY ahah)
30minutes later...
"What are you on about xD?"

OK so what is your reply going to be to her?

[Guxci_28_03]

That Is So Lame Dude Like Wow😂😂You Might As well Delete Her Number From Your Phone & Just Save Yourself Before Its Too L8😆

[Nandor]

No I have to know

[Guxci_28_03]

Well... Good Luck Man😂

[Pizza_lover159]

Ill be a honest bitc# and tell you to confess. Because if you dont. In a week or two someone else will do that and you will end alone. If you can't confess then dont get envy on someone who will do that and get her.

[Nandor]

You didn't read right

[Pizza_lover159]

Tell her in the face

[aialex]

She's probably either laughing her ass off or wanting to strangle you right now

[Nandor]

Im hoping for the 2nd one

[aialex]

Wow. So many didn't read till the end, eventho you wrote something so long. *pats*

[Nandor]

Thank you. I love you

[aialex]

Thank you. I love me too 😊

[Nandor]

You're welcome

[LebenLiebe]

When I was reading that I was like ”awwww” :l

Yes confess to her

[Nandor]

Its awww through and through

[Ellie-V]

You’re one silly dude... in a positive way. And if a fish is placed in a setting with the wrong kind of water they need, then they can “drown”.

[AlwaysBelieving]

This is true. A fishtank without the water circulator.

[Ellie-V]

A saltwater fish being wrongfully places in fresh water

[BeesNectar]

No. Your not being straightforward. You’re playing a game. It would be game over!!

[Nandor]

But I just want to know if she thinks a fish can drown

[Juxtapose]

You're seeing how many people actually read questions, aren't you?

Do it for the lolz, that line at the end.. lol!

[Nandor]

People dont read till the end

[Yatagurusu]

Totally, but do it slowly and in chunks.
Then send 'lol I like you, wanna go on a date' after she's replied

[Nandor]

What? Why would I go on a date? That wasn't even my question

[Yatagurusu]

What. But that's not a confession, a confession is 'I drowned a fish'

[Nandor]

No I just wanted to know

[Hanzyxw]

I confessed and I was rejected but I have no regrets and that helped me to keep going so be ready to suffer it might not work out well

[Dark93]

It's funny to see how many people didn't read all the way through.

[Nandor]

Yeah

[SwoleCook]

Tell her. Let her reject you. Because she will. Then use that as motivation to stop being a bitch and putting the pussy on a pedestal.

[SwoleCook]

I didn’t read a word of it.

[Nandor]

Read it till the end

[PeterB1517]

I don't get it. Can a fish drown? I guess no. It's not a confession. It's some stupid build up to a dumb question. I don't get it.

[marilynmansonssextoy]

no, they'll just end up breaking your heart. i believe south park says it best:

[Sociopathvictim]

you wouldn't be able to resist caring ;D

[marilynmansonssextoy]

@Sociopathvictim xDDD
also, why did 2 people downvote this?

[Sociopathvictim]

@marilynmansonssextoy what if one of them was me ;O

[marilynmansonssextoy]

@Sociopathvictim ;o

[Sociopathvictim]

@marilynmansonssextoy oh whats wrong? lol

[AlwaysBelieving]

Wait, are you confessing to her or are you asking her that question?

[AlwaysBelieving]

To your update, yes I did. I won't vote until you let me know if you're actually going to let your crush know or if you're going to asker her about the fish.

[Nandor]

Send her everything between the two "

[AlwaysBelieving]

Confess yes; as the "fish question", no.

[Nandor]

But thats been on my mind for forever

[Anonymous]

She'll have a mini heart attack first but then have the time of her life.
I saayyy DO IT

[Nandor]

I will

[Maxemeister]

lmao @ the amount of people who didn't read till the end

[Nandor]

This question got festured aswell. Guess the mods didn't read it either

[Maxemeister]

lol let's count the amount of people on this question who don't respect you enough to read it:

I count 20

This has been a social experiment

[Nandor]

0 respek, now Im sad

[Maxemeister]

Press F to pay respects

F

[Nandor]

Big nobba F for respekkkk

[Maxemeister]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jTvP5m6V9qU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mUZiUC-kHj8

[Drumlin2001]

Just talk to her. Don't do it via a message. Walk up to her, ask her if she wantd a coffee or to go for a walk and just talk it all through with her

[9teen]

If a fish can drown does that mean humans can choke on oxygen too? 🤔

[samuelblyat]

I would confess. But I'd do it irl cause that's a lot more personal.

[Nandor]

Read till the end boi

[Lukee01]

lmao u overthink the sh! t. u dont gotta say all that that makes it a bigger deal and makes it more awkward. just find a way to casually bring it into a convo, just drop hints and say u like them without all that gay sh! t

[sensitive_pancake135]

Yes you should confess to her , when I was reading this thought it was sweet

[Nandor]

Thank you

[Mrwonder]

Do it but in person and if you can’t then tell her that you wanted to tell her in person I hope she’ll understand thou

[100lbguy]

Yeah so she cam know hownlucky she isbof not going out with a guy on drugs asking deep weird questions

[Hapinus]

i dont think it's long enough

[2opaz]

That's what she said

[Nandor]

Thats what I said

[2opaz]

How long do you like it?

[Nandor]

Like 13" in her ass

[2opaz]

that's Destruction

[Nandor]

I know I like freaky girls

[2opaz]

Me too

[Nandor]

Much respecc to you my dude, but dont steal my freaks

[2opaz]

I will not sir Respeccc

[funnychick101]

If she can take a joke... SEND IT MY CHILD 😂

[Nandor]

I will

[Aiko_E_Lara]

What are you waiting for? Another guy to get her? Do it but be prepared tho.

[rahul_24]

Do it, just be open she could reject soz. But don't leave it

[Classicxii]

Wouldn't it be best to tell to her directly in person?

[taecallsmejagi]

That's really sweet! You should definitely confess and get it off your chest😉👍

[jayyeve]

Nothing unspoken ever goes your way shoot your shot

[Kureghooghoo]

Don't ask her. I tell you. A fish can drown.

[Nandor]

I ask her aswell

[Kureghooghoo]

OK :D

[Kureghooghoo]

I read it.

[NovissimumVirorum]

Confess your sins my child

[Nandor]

Okie

[Tylisa1]

Lol. Do it. That was funny as hell.

[britpop]

Tell her what do you have to lose

[PrettyRegular]

You got nothing to lose. Do it!

[YHL6965]

Don't send her this, tell her directly.

[yourfutureboyfriend]

Fuck no it's gonna make u look pathetic

[thevampire_queen]

Yes confess to her

[thevampire_queen]

I read it to the end

[Nandor]

Good girl

[thevampire_queen]

Thank you

[Nandor]

You're welcome queen

[Anon-ymous1]

Do it boy

[Deathraider]

Yes! I say yes!

[WeirdoWerdo]

Yes confess to her

[LegateLanius]

Confess

[LegateLanius]

Yeah, fish are able to drown. If a shark stops swimming, it drowns.

[LegateLanius]

I should clarify. Some sharks must swim constantly in order to keep oxygen-rich water flowing over their gills, but others are able to pass water through their respiratory system by a pumping motion of their pharynx.

[HAR230]

😂👍

[ThePundertaker]

Do it

[ThePundertaker]

I did not...

[BOUNTYGUY9]

yes send it

[2opaz]

Yeah

[CT_CD]

Yes confess to her

[man_on_the_moon]

Air gasy boi

[MisterSir]

Yes confess to her

[Revolver_]

Don't

[Revolver_]

I didn't read it to the end

[Hedlundman]

Yes you should