Confessing to my crush?

[Anonymous]

Hello 👋

I am a student. I like a girl at my school; she is my crush. We are friends also (though not so close friends). I have heard from other students that she has a boyfriend. But I only want to confess my feelings for her because it feels like a burden on my heart. I am scared to confess my feelings for her. So, should I confess to her or not?

[Guy13]

Do not confess you out of control... this guy is psycho... EWWWwww !!

You want that reputation amongst all the women then knock yourself out.

Friendzone will be an accomplishment if you do this. GO to the damn GYM

[sxeven]

You probably shouldn't do that.. Maybe talk to her more. But honestly I think waiting is kind of the best option, who knows her and her boyfriend may not work out. If he's a bad guy you can step in for her and be her guy “friend”. Shell slowly start liking you more and more because of that

[QuietVerbena]

Confess to her. She won’t hurt you. Even if she has a boyfriend she’ll be nice and she’ll be flattered that you like her. And maybe you’ll make a friend.

[coachTanthony]

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. Don't ever do that. Just get to know her better. By getting to know her better her boyfriend will come up sooner or later if she has one and if you find out she doesn't have one then just ask her out. Rejection is a part of life so get used to it now.

[BlueScorpio]

Find our if she definitely has a boyfriend or not. If she really does, then I wouldn't bother cause you will be rejected anyway.

[FireGodGoesSeeknFire]

Congression is a bad habit and wi overtime seriously undermine your dating ability. You should pursue her. That is get to know her in away that gives her a chance to appreciate you.

The idea that a relationship should precipitate a from your private feelings for her ultimately covertly narcissistic. An emotional relationship whether platonic or romantic should evolve between you and not be presented from one of you to the other.

[tzdc21]

It clearly is eating away at you. I say go ahead and get it out of your system. Let that burden fall off your shoulders and tell her. And let it be known that even though she may not like you back, you just had to get that burden off of you once and for all.

[AmeerX]

Confess to her but as you said she has a boyfriend. Be a brave man and tell her you love her even if it is in front of the entire school.

I actually confessed to two girls like that in front of class 😅. Both times I got a no but I was honored among the guys for heaving the heaviest balls 🤣. It was during the university years. Luckily, I was a star pupil so my repute among the teachers wasn't damaged either. Everyone who learned appreciated that I took a straight approach

[slatyb]

Don't "confess". Children do that. Don't worry whether she has a boyfriend. Just invite her to join you for lunch or coffee or whatever is convenient. That's how adults "confess" -- we ask for a date.

[Vegasrunner]

Dumb question. You should never confess feelings to a woman you're not dating. The boyfriend part is irrelevant. If you want her go up to her ask her out if she says no move on to the other billion females I'm the world.

[CA4444]

Well it’s now or never you might as well get it out, this is probably gonna hurt but you may feel relieved in some ways

[katestar]

Of course. I've been in love with him since we were teenagers and now that we're adults. I have a lot to say to him when I see him

[Stevefiveo]

Eh, I don't know about confessing your feelings. Just say hey I really like you, do you want to go out? Good luck.

[Hakkaid]

Start talking to her more often, and eventually ask her out.

[PinkRose24]

Why? What's the point she has a boyfriend

[insalata]

Absolutely not

[red_knight]

Write it in a rock and throw it at her

[KrakenAttackin]

Don't. She will dry up like the Sahara.

[Teriyaki70]

Don't do it...

[CoolCatMar1]

Don't do that