I hate all this overthinking. Should I confess or not?

[ssd25]

There is one girl I can't get out of my head. I've known her for 6+ years. She is my crush. We were in a car together about a week ago, and she leant against me even though it could have been avoided. And she let me touch her breast with my elbow for the whole ride ( she had done this before, 4 years ago; this was the second time). After that, one day in the morning, while I was sleeping, she ran her finger through my hair. And after that, one day during the evening, while we were sitting , she flicked her finger on my knee, asking me a question, "Does it hurt?" with an angry expression on her face. To which I replied, "No." I noticed that she looked and smiled at me during are stay. I don't know if I should take it as a sign. Some of the signs she has shown are like she laughed at my unfunny joke, offered me one slice of orange when I was in another room (she actually came walking to the room which is 6m away) and touched my nose. It 's been 4 days since I thought about her. Should I confess to her that I like her? English is not my first language. Sorry if you find it hard to understand. Thank you.

[SueShe]

There is no such thing as overthinking but only thorough analysis.

When it comes to liking someone or having a one-sided crush, it is always important to weigh the pros and cons of an action, mainly if you are insecure about the possible consequences of a gesture or addressing that person.

Also, how could you know that she was running her fingers through your hair since you were sleeping as you state?

What is the worst thing that can happen if you ask her if your crush is reciprocated? Think of it! The worst thing that can happen is that the crush is not reciprocated and that now you are certain that you should not pursue this girl. But on the other hand, it could be that she likes you too. If she does, what would be your next step?

You have to think also of what you are going to do or say if she does like you in return.

Without risking something you get nothing in return. What do you think of that?

[ssd25]

I was half asleep. I was conscious. While touching my hair, she said, "Go sleep upstairs". I want to confess my feelings to her, but there is one problem: I don't fully trust her. Both of our parents are strict. Our parents know each other. So it will create a problem if she tells her family.

[ssd25]

Shall i take a shot and tell her that i like her?

[Anonymous]

Dont profess your feelings. Ask her if she'd like to go out on a date some time. Both direct and tells her how you feel at the same time lol

[Opinion Owner]

It sounds like you've been thinking about this for a long time too. It sounds like you already regret not trying to make a move. doesn't it sound better to at least try, so you don't have to look back on this and think "man, I could have at least went for it just to see what happened."

Take a chance <3

[ssd25]

Date is not possible because i have a tight schedule.

[ssd25]

Yea. I regretted it. I didn't confess my feelings 4 years ago.

[Iron_Man]

yeah chat with her

[ssd25]

Yes i want to but i am nervous.

[Guy13]

Wa wa 😭

[Anonymous]

Start with stopping the over thinking.

[In_Trance]

i think this is a waste of time

[ssd25]

Yea overthinking is waste of time.
Tomorrow i will confess to her and will let you guys know.

[kikissss]

Just ask her