If you're date told you they didn't have fun with you, how would you feel?

[Anonymous]

[abc3643]

Honestly?

Probably relieved!
Why?
Because if she didn't have fun with me, almost certainly, I sensed that and wasn't having fun with her.
So, her letting me know what I suspected, saves me the uncertainty of not being sure and spares me the guilt I probably would have felt not wanting to go on a second date with her. So, as awkward as it might be, we are both on the same page that this isn't going to work out and we shouldn't waste any more time with each other.

[the_man57]

It depends how you phrase it and what you guys did. Like if he took you to just a movie and dinner, you could say that was boring and it would be more reasonable. But if he took you somewhere fun like bowling or amusement park then it would be like wtf. Also depends on how much effort he put into it.

[Anonymous]

I’d probably ask him what made him feel that way and how I can improve, constructive criticism is always welcomed!

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Like crap, lol. But Id just move on after that.

[Asker]

This is how I feel. But I know it was my fault. I wanst the best person

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Why do you think it was your fault or say you weren’t the best person?

[Asker]

I told him I wasn't interested in him at dinner. Also sort of made fun of him living at home

[jahaims]

It would depend if I had fun or not. If I didn't I'd agreed if I did I'd think they missed out

[scott04sa22]

What!! 😲