How would you react, if your date spills a drink on you?

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Jerre · Accepted Answer

If I was lucky, she would spill it in my lap. Then I would ask her if she would mind blotting the excess wetness in my lap. Sure to make my cock hard.

codycccccccccc · Accepted Answer

I would probably just laugh and say something along the lines of "if you want me to take my clothes off you could have just askedl"

coachTanthony · Answer

Little piece of advice: If you ever spill a drink on HER don't grab your napkin and try to help! LOL To answer your question though I would laugh it off most likely!

SydneySentinel · Answer

If it was an accident, I would just dab it off or go in the restroom and try to use an air dryer. Maybe he'd let me wear his jacket so I wouldn't get cold. 😊😊

Desconhecida · Answer

It depends on his reaction. If he couldn't care less it would be a red flag.

Clarke510 · Answer

Assuming it's an accident since the word spill implies as much:
It would depend on the drink, basically about if it stains and if I'm going to smell of alcohol for awhile or get sticky if it's a soft drink etc.

Firstly I want to clarify that accidents happen, there is no need to get mad at her for an accident but at the same time I know she'd be embarrassed and possibly flustered so it's a good idea to make a joke that's appropriate for how things have been going and where the drink was spilt.

For example it a girl knocked a drink off a table and onto my lap on a first date if probably tell her it's alright and go clean myself up a bit, depending on the amount that may mean going home to change and possibly shower. But I'd probably make some joke about how normally girls wait until the third date to try to get my pants off.
It shows I'm not mad at her and if I've only just met her I'd probably text her to talk about another date.

If it's later than a first date I might invite her to come with me to my place so we don't have to cut the date short over one accident and offer to change it from a night out to a quiet night in and offer new episodes of TV shows, ordering pizza and just relaxing, maybe make a joke about keeping the bottles of coke out of her reach just in case.

If it's just a small spill of something like water on a shirt, who cares then? I'm sure I'd survive.

Seregunda1 · Answer

It's their reaction to spilling the drink that I'd judge, not the spilling itself.

Eg. If I'm wearing dark clothes and get a profuse apology and passing of napkins? I wouldn't see that as an issue. If I'm wearing white and it's destroyed with red wine I will want to go home after eating. I'll be a little annoyed, but not a deal breaker.

jgokgotit · Answer

It depends. If it was an accident then I shrug it off and probably laugh about it and will likely even pour a few more drops on myself as a joke. However, if she pours it on me deliberately then at the bare minimum we are not talking for a couple of days. Spitting and deliberately pouring liquids on someone is incredibly disrespectful.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

I don't really react much when I've had drinks spilled on me. Frankly, in my work in customer service, I've even been the one spilling drink on a customer! (They were actually quite gracious about it to their credit). I'd just excuse myself, clean off in the restroom as best I can, and continue the date. Or if it's really bad, I can always say I need to go home and change, and kinda just motion for her to come join me. Soooo could even work to my advantage haha

stardust101 · Answer

At first I would feel shock from the coldness but I think I would just laugh it off. It could be a good ice breaker 😂

R_ūshī · Answer

I'd laugh and turn it into a battle. I've done that before and it was so much fun.  He was smoking and I threw water on his face to get him to stop. It ended up in a water battle 😂😂

Rocky_Jocky57 · Answer

I wouldn't mind, id probs make a joke like "oh congrats! you made me wet!" Lmao, but an accident like that won't kill me, but id probs need time to dry off.

mermaidia_lol · Answer

It wouldn't be the end of the world even if he did it on purpose. Causing a scene in front of everyone is unmannerly and inconsiderate of others around you.

I'd just leave the place like a civilized human being.

Katerina_Belle · Answer

Spill two drinks back on him. I don’t believe in “an eye for an eye” I believe in two eyes for an eye.

ShortCircuit · Answer

I wouldn't really care. In fact, I would make an opportunity out of it to vet her character by gauging *her* reaction.

Roxi- · Answer

It’s okay lol as long as I didn’t have white clothes on which I normally don’t I’m not going to trip.

Kezzz · Answer

I would probably be like "wow first date and you already want me outts mu clothes lol" It's a genuine mishap, nothing I'd freak out about. Could have been me spilling that drink on her.

RTC1600 · Answer

I'm a very easy going person and not materialistic. Just laugh it off, clean it up and move on like nothing happened.

Jeetin · Answer

I feel like the only people who overreact to this are secretly robots who dont want their circuits getting wet. Other than that, if you think your date sucked because you got spilled on, it wasn't going well in the first place.

MajesticTwelve · Answer

If it was an accident, oh well, things happen. His reaction would be more important than the drink spill.

MecheD · Answer

I wouldn’t mind accidents happen. I’ll just make sure they’re okay especially if they had a bit much to drink.

xxmidnightstarxx · Answer

It depends I guess, I’m sure it’s accidental so I would probably laugh it off.

EmmaMary · Answer

Providing it's not Red Wine then his life would be spared.

WhiteSandBeach · Answer

Assuming he spilled it accidentally, and he’s apologizing then I’ll say no worries and excuse myself to the bathroom to clean.

TadCurious · Answer

By accident? It wouldn't be a big deal. Things like that happen.

BordJonBoi · Answer

Prepare my sword and urge them to prepare their sword and settle it in an honorable duel

OhWonderland · Answer

Laugh it off. Unless he does it on purpose... Then, it's war, sis.

Sandy787 · Answer

I wouldn't make a drama, bc this can happen to everybody 🤷‍♀️

fauchelevent · Answer

Laugh it off. It's an accident, shit happens unfortunately.

SirRexington · Answer

Hold back frustration. Go to the restroom and try to dry it under the hand dryer. If it was too wet then we'd have to leave so I could change.

Anonymous · Answer

Laugh. Nothing else you can do. If it’s not intentional, all I could do was imagine myself in their shoes, get second hand embarrassment, and try to make them feel better about it

Anonymous · Answer

It depends if it's accidentally done or done on purpose. If it's an accident - accidents happen, no biggy. If it's deliberately done, kick him to the curb. ;)

naijagurl · Answer

I would try to remain calm and just clean myself up. Mistakes happen.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

She's not getting away with it.

Jackieboi · Answer

Id say it was quite refreshing and ask for more. Then bring it up again to obviously tease about it once or twice later.

Missoctober13 · Answer

Accidents happen. Does the situation suck yes especially if it isn't water that spilled on you but no need to create drama unless he did it on purpose

EleanorRigby · Answer

Laugh it off and make sure I know it was by accident and that I'm not angry.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I'd laugh. Something to joke with them about in future

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

Slightly surprised, as most people probably be. I would say that it’s perfectly fine and say that she shouldn’t worry about it.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Id laugh. Like when i went to squirt mustard on my burger and it exploded. 😂😂

AshleyMadison00 · Answer

Mad as fuck. but if he was cool we would make it work

Gedaria · Answer

It's an accident. These things happen. Treated well it could be a good thing...

letssee89 · Answer

As long as it's not a glass of red wine, not the end of the world. Everything else can be washed.

YHL6965 · Answer

I would be like "It's okay, I have had worse" or say something like "For once, I'm not the clumsy one :D" jokingly.

coolhandroo · Answer

Use it as excuse to go to a more private place so I could take some clothes off. Wish it happened more

DanOh2018 · Answer

I would probably laugh it off and used it as a pretext to end the date early and bring her back to my place.

Anonymous · Answer

if it was an accident i'd laugh it off, but if the date is rude about it and the dress was expensive, i'd do it right back

rievious · Answer

Was it intentional?  Yes- I'd leave No- I'd find some new clothes and continue to like the person

Anonymous · Answer

If its on purpose then good bye forever, if its by mistake i will clean it

Rob171977 · Answer

a little upset but i'd let it go i wouldn't harbor over it

scooogy · Answer

I'd look at her flirtatous, saying "I actually supposed you to become wet tonight" ;) 😂

not_that_guy · Answer

If it's just a little bit I'll laugh it off and go on with the date

Anonymous · Answer

One of the strippers, last night, at the club, i overheard her say one of the guys was so drunk that he spilled his drink on her. I felt so bad for her

Nadim171 · Answer

"Oh, don't worry, nothing happened, I'll just clean it off" it's not a big deal

Brett6988 · Answer

I would let him know that it's not a big deal but accidents happen not to stress its enjoy your evening

JesseJayNeak · Answer

I would laugh about it and tell her that I'm a clumsy guy myself

Smegskull · Answer

Oh No... Guess I'll just have to take all of this off 😏😏

Anonymous · Answer

"YOU LITTLE SHIT HOW DARE YOU" as I flip the whole table and walk out the restaurant

Look222 · Answer

It’s ok no problem. Will not clean my clothes and keep it as a memory to laugh at

Andremoso · Answer

How is someone supposed to react? Shit happens. Get undressed til you your clothes dry.

WickedRoze · Answer

It's an accident, also would laugh about it. It's just a drink, nothing to fret over.

MorganBlack · Answer

Stay calm for a second; then, laugh at the situation

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