A girl on tinder asked me to meet immediately. Did I dodge a bullet (read below 👇👇👇)?

[Cluelessguy95]

I match with this girl on tinder.
She asked me where I was from (25 miles away)
She told me that we were to far and I told her that distance is not a problem.
I told her we could chat and know more about each other then if things went well we could meet.
I tried to ask her a couple of questions to see if we had things in common.
And then she asked me if we could meet today.
I feel like it's too soon we don't know anything about each other.
So I told her I can't because I have some school work to do (it's true I have things to work on)
So she responded that her birthday was tomorrow ( manipulation maybe?)
So I told her my schedule is really tight and offered her to celebrate another day so I could have more time to prepare myself.
So she responded "i wanted today"
Was she just trying to get sex? Which i doubt because she was like a 9 and I'm like a 5.
Or she was just trying to get a free meal or something similar?

Updates

+1 y

Ok I thought that was it but after almost 5 hours she's asking for my number.

[pjnickles]

Its too far. Your first mistake was offering to drive. She threw the hook and you took the bait.

And don't give your number unless you meet in person. A scammer can connect a number to many other bits of personal information and you'll be sitting on an empty bank account, or worse.

You can do everything needed to meet, right where you're chatting. Texts, links to emails, or requests to move chats to other sites are just ways of collecting bits and pieces of info.

Get you Emaill, get your name.
Get your WhatsApp, get your Email address.
Get your phone, get something else.
It's a bits and pieces game.

Today it's chat with me on What'sApp
Tomorrow, it's my What'sApp isn't working, what's your Email? I'll message you. The next day it's my Email won't let me send anything either, my whole computer must have a virus, what's your number, I'll text you.

Now they have your Email, WhatsApp and phone number, plus you probably already told her you're 26, born in December and your first name is Dave, and you can't even verify the person you're talking to is a woman.

Get it? Got it? Good. You're 26, you should know better man. Quit thinking with your little head... really.

[Cluelessguy95]

I figured. I didn't gave her my number I'm not that dumb.

[Staximus]

Did she want to go out to dinner or something or just get right down to business and get a room? If she wants to hang out and get to know you, that's fine. If she just wants to fuck you without even hanging out first, that's a red flag. Most women would never do that. If she's really good looking and it seems too good to be true, be on your guard; especially if she thinks you have money. It rarely happens in the U. S. anymore unless the girl is dope fiend, but hot chicks used to set dudes up to be robbed. Still happens a lot in other countries. Happened to my friend while he was in Japan of all places, a few years back.

[slatyb]

Today? That does seem odd. If you do agree to meet a woman, do it at a public place like a coffee shop. Never agree to meet someone at their home or a remote spot. Never agree to accompany them there until you are sure you know who they are -- a couple of dates at least.

[slatyb]

Where did she want to meet?

[Cluelessguy95]

I guess somewhere near her house. I didn't accept because first i can't today, second we just match and don't know anything about each other and third she is like a 9 and I'm like a 5

[GreenLanternI0I]

You should be very careful with such ""girls"" if she is even a girl in the first place lol. If she is a 9 as you said and you are a 5, let's be honest here, something extremely fishy going on here. Tinder in 2022 is not what it used to be many years ago. The original purpose of Tinder (free sex with as many people as you can possibly handle), basically disappeared. These days it is all about scamming, robbing and ego stroking.

[dontgetafemalecanine]

Don't go man. Bad red flags. (pictures can be fake. when things are too good to be true, you are thinking it right)

block her lol.

There's better girls out there.

Maybe she's genuine. But ain't your problem when you have other priorities. However, your take g.

[Fuentes]

I have met up with a chick before who wanted to meet up quick, but before i meet them i track them down like get them to addd me on snap so i get a name or username and. then i find their social medias and scan through it see if they got a man or a set up. or not and then ill meet up i never meet anyone blind, i will even find there address too just to be sure im all good.

[MCheetah]

Real women don't do that. They don't meet guys they just met for sex. Sounds like a scammer or con-artist to me.

[IsoUser]

I couldn't agree with you more in that situation sounds like a staged killing or an outright Ripoff.

[AviatorTom]

Sounds like "she" was trying to scam you. Had you gone to the meerup, you may have met a 40-something guy who would have beaten you up and taken your wallet and kets, and stolen your car.

[spartan55]

She wanted something to eat and drink for free..."I wanted today"... Ugh...

[GlassTop]

Don’t ignore your gut feelings. If you went, you likely would have ended up scammed or dead. Would it be worth the small chance of sex? Hell no!

[Cluelessguy95]

Yeah it was too good to be true. She was way too hot for me.

[AndrésC64]

That sounds a bit fishy. In any case, you could continue with things and see if you would like to actually meet up with her at a later date and see how she responds

[MasonAlucardthethird]

Dude you are on a tinder and a girl asks you to meet immediately. What the fuck do you think

[Cluelessguy95]

That's why I'm asking because I don't know. I have never used dating apps before and her behavior looked suspicious I'm not that good looking to be asked by a girl like her to go straight to businesses with out her knowing anything about me.

[MasonAlucardthethird]

It’s a skam dude.

[blundernuts]

You won't know if you don't meet her. Take a buddy with you don't tell her. She might try to roll you. If everything is cool you get some and your friend can wait

[whosnumber1]

weird... I would bail on her. especially if she is a 9. sounds fishy. I would drop her like a bad habit

[Twalli]

She swiped on you, clearly there's something that she likes

[jimmy2]

Its hard telling these days. sounds like give me $100 or more

[driven159]

scammer see the red flags

[Carlit0]

Sounds like a miss opportunity

[Anonymous]

Robbery.