Did I jump the gun with this girl, did I screw things up?

[Anonymous]

This girl i like has a boyfriend, she told me last week things were not going well and was very sad and i could tell it by her face. Earlier this week i decided to ask her for dinner and she did not get back to me, she also avoided me in person for 2 days straight. She spoke to me today but was short and not even about the dinner. I know its a awkward situation to begin with but did i screw things up for good? She seemed like she did have interest in me before hand. I do think about it and feel bad because i was out of line for doing that.

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[ShiftingMonke]

Yes, you screwed up.

She's not even out of a bad relationship abs you're trying to hook up? That's not cool.

She trusted you to be a confidant and someone she can share her troubles with, by tipping your hand and sharing your desire, she's lost a friend.

In the future, don't do that.

[Asker]

I admit I'm a dumb idiot the more I think about it. I think I probably lost her trust and next week I don't think she'll talk to me the way she used too

[ShiftingMonke]

You'll be lucky if she talks to you at all. But lesson learned, I suppose. Just be extra careful around women and their feelings; they're easily broken and hardly mended.

[Asker]

she spoke to me yesterday but just for 2 minutes, didn't mention what i told her. She actually approached me first 3 months ago at her workplace and ever since then we kicked it off from there. I helped her with her car and the times it was just me and her, she acted differently around me and said things i thought was "more than friends". Im such a idiot, she was basically ready to break up with her boyfriend and i timed this horribly. I guess we'll see next week but i think she'll just ignore me or super small talk.

[LiliTyaka]

Possible not a good choice. I hope you didn't screw up but its definetly possible. When i would be open in this kind of thing with a guy i wouldn't be that happy about a invitation to a dinner. I would definetly dont say no to a Coffee but this is me. And i just see my Situation right now i have so yea for a Coffee i would say yes but for dinner uhm thats a bit to far. But like i say its me and not her. I just hope the best for you and keep your head up :)

[Asker]

I appreciate it. The more I think about it the more I hate myself for it. She actually approached me first 3 months ago to help her fix her car but anytime we were alone she would act differently than in public or around her friend. I just feel she kinda liked me andi wasn't patience enough to wait. She really opened up to me and I think next week when I see her again it will just be small talk or maybe she'll ignore me like this week. She did speak to me yesterday buy very short and didn't look me in the eyes and never mentioned what I said, so I kinda got the feeling she isn't too happy with me

[LiliTyaka]

Just dont hate yourself we all do sometimes something wrong it's about learning about mistakes :) if it was one it needs to be shown, you will definetly know at some point

[Asker]

thanks, i hope this week it goes a little better

[In_Trance]

you're wasting your time

[Asker]

I kind of think the silence was an answer

[In_Trance]

Agreed