Do guys prefer quiet or talkative girls?

[Anonymous]

Quiet

Talkative

[VanillaSalt]

I like women that have a lot to say on deep specific subjects. I hate the boring explanation of how her day went… but I love discussions on how Susan’s a bitch for eating jacks lunch. I also like deep discussions on life, live, and happiness… I also like silence… just being in each other’s presence is fulfilling enough…


I do not however like questions like these. Taking parts and pieces of what unimportant people like to change for them is a mistake. Rarely can we change for people we really don’t care about.


Here’s a life lesson. I see things in life, movies, books, and experiences and cherry pick the parts I like and become what I admire. I’m always changing always improving for MYSELF! If I find a girl that likes me the way I am I test her to find if we’re compatible. Can we get along? Are there major problems I can foresee in the future? Will I be proud of her for years to come? If we both are happy then comes marriage… That’s where vows mean something. I become what she deserves and she becomes what I deserve. It’s so much easier to sacrifice for others when you truly care for them. That’s when you change to appease. You become the best version of you for yourself then you become what your partner deserves for them because marriage is all about your partner over yourself.


People don’t understand this so they need feelings to move forward or to keep the relationship going. This is why I say marriage is an impossible standard so I won’t marry.

[Asker]

Thanks for the long reply. I asked this question out of curiosity I wasn't willing to change to begin with unless it was a bad quality.
Also brother, you're making marriage look so difficult which I don't agree with. Marriage has a lot of positive aspects and make the ties between the married couple stronger. Ngl, Dating looks too messed up in my opinion.

[VanillaSalt]

You are an ignorant woman. I’m sorry to say but the fact is 53% of marriages end in divorce… and men are almost ALWAYS the biggest loser in divorce. We both lose financially, her in losing my income and me in paying alimony and child support… but then come kids. Do you know how much Ide have to pay every month for child support? I make on a lower end 50k per month… with that I’m paying $800 per month with Texas laws and I can’t even properly parent my kid… it’s even possible for her to come into the relationship with a child or be pregnant before and unless I demand a dna test before signing the birth certificate (dear god can you imagine how that goes) then I’m on the hook for 18 years more of the child has a debilitating illness like retardation. Besides… for me marriage is the perfect co-existence… I don’t believe people in America today are capable of such self-sacrifice. So no I won’t get married.

[CuriousJC]

You have always been the quiet type. I'm the type of person who likes to listen to others. It's hard to be a talkative type of person if you got nothing to talk about or nothing in common with people that can call the conversation I happen. Take video games or movies for an example, if people play the same video game or watch the same movie then they can have a conversation because they got something in common that they like. People who don't have anything in common with each other would prefer to be quiet especially when they were born the shy type emotionally. Sometimes I was super powers for real, because empathy and telepathic would help dozens of people who aren't the talkative type of people.

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[Guy13]

We enjoy feminine, smart, and graceful women who know how to have fun. Too much talking, to a guy like he’s one of the girls, will blow up everything. If we think you talk aloud just to hear your voice echoing inside your own head…
It’s over at that point

[Asker]

I see, Thanks for your answer

[Guy13]

Yep
👍

[ImNoOne111]

I personally like talkative girls because I am talkative myself and if she just stays there, acting bored (or even showing interest) and telling nothing, it would look very weird. But a bad thing about talkative people are they usually tend to cut your talk which I find very annoying

[JSmuve]

Varying degrees of both. If she's so quiet that she makes it difficult to get to know her, that's bad. But if she's so talkative that she's annoying, that's also bad. There's a time and a place for being both.

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[Jay3344]

I like conversing. Silence makes me think somethings wrong That being said I don’t want someone who doesn’t know who’s to relax in quiet comfort. So I guess just open communication with effortless comfortable silences. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[crmoore]

I don't have a preference, as long as the quiet girl is eventually perfectly talkative with me (which I'd imagine she eventually would). But a quiet girl is more likely to have other qualities I like. But ultimately it doesn't really matter much.

[Asker]

I see, Thanks for the answer

[crmoore]

No problem

[ohshee]

There's a time and a place for everything I like more of the quiet side but can communicate with her eyes or touch

[JackVE]

Very hard to answer. I'm very talkative, but I really like kinda quiet girls. I think it's cute when shy girls start to open up, or laugh loudly and embarrass themselves

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[Citizenkirk]

I like a good conversation. Talking helps with communication.

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[Citizenkirk]

😁👍

[Kaamraj]

Can be either but not challenging or confrontational.

[Asker]

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[Avicenna]

Usually talkative ones are preferred. But I’ve had some great gfs who were quiet.

[Asker]

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[UdontNeedtoknow]

The Lord gaves us all 2 ears, 2 eyes, and only 1 mouth. That means that we all should listen and observe twice as much as we speak. Most women are incapable of understanding this.

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[nawtee_me]

I said talkative but what I mean is I don't want a quiet girl, nor do I want one that rambles on and on. I want a girl that can hold a conversation about most anything and has an opinion of her own.

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[JustiReno]

I talk too much I need a girl to tell me when to shut up 😳

[Asker]

XD Thanks for your answer

[Andres77]

Talkative to a point.
If she gets to be too much... just kiss her. Shut her up for a bit.

[Andres77]

And only talkative if she's smart.
If she's just going to yap about fashion and the Kardashians then it would have never come to anything

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[SAMI_DABBAB]

I don't know what I want I just keep wishing for the thing she's not and it's funny

[Asker]

Lmao xxxD
thanks for the answer

[SAMI_DABBAB]

You're welcome 🤭

[Gingerguy33]

I’ve had both I prefer ones who can hold a conversation

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[dragoblack]

Passionate women who are open about their interests and are supportive of ours without judgement. Saying talkative alone is so vague of an answer.

[Asker]

I agree. Thanks for your answer

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Talkative and girls that giggle I love them but quiet ones can be just as cute

[ohnuts]

I prefer a balance. But because I admit I'm a mucher bigger ego, I suppose realistically and shamefully, I need a listener for a SO rather than a talker 😅

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[ohnuts]

Mind may I ask who are you a talker or a quieter?

[Asker]

Quieter at first but talker when I get confortable

[ohnuts]

Oh cool, thanks

[Asker]

You're welcome

[ohnuts]

So in conclusion I would prefer a Quiet woman, just because I feel there's not woman for two talkers, but that's just me being fair and honest. I know I'm a chatterbox so I would have to realistically and honestly to myself, only date quiet women or more politely it's better to say "listener women " 😁

[ohnuts]

Otherwise me and a talkative woman would just but heads way too often, you know?

[Asker]

I completely get it lol
When I asked this question at first I expected I would get a result of like 90% quiet. Turns out it's 50 50 and just a personnal taste.
(by the way thanks again for your long reply have a nice day/night)

[Cuminginside]

Some girls have Flury sexy voice I like that the other ones had the whiny voice be quiet with that.

[TheBigGuy9]

Definitely talkative. Quiet ones you don’t even know what they’re thinking half the time.

[Asker]

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[ElvenMr]

I love talkative girls. I need to like her voice tho.

[Asker]

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[TexasRed95]

I'm extremely quiet so I need someone that would start conversations to get me going.

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[Anonymous]

You dont have to be quiet but can you talk a little bit less? Half the stuff you're talking about I DONT CARE

[CuriousMufuxka]

Kinda talkative. I mean really you get a bunch of girls together it's gonna be a talkfest! And say the nastiest shit!

[Deserter]

More on the quiet side. People that talk too mich can be a pain for a variety of reasons

[Asker]

I see, Thanks for your answer

[fred_durst]

the vote result indeed surprising , considering that men usually dont listen , lol

[Asker]

Ikr! It's quite a relief to know that it's just a personal taste ^^

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I'm not even a fan of small talks. I get drained from talking a lot so i'd prefer a quiet girl

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Also usually the quiet ones are straight to the point when they tell you something

[Asker]

I see, Thanks for your answer

[Aiko_E_Lara]

*hugs*

[Asker]

*hugs*

[TOQGYDL]

I'm quiet. I need someone to talk instead of me. xd

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[Wilhelmstrasse]

I like girls that will put effort in the conversation and try to get to know me as a person. but im an incel. so that will never happen

[Asker]

Be optimistic! I'm sure there are around you but you fail to notice them. Have patience. Good luck!
(Thanks for your answer by the way)

[Wilhelmstrasse]

Nope. your a woman. so of course you'll lie. saying be optimistic is like saying ''just be confident bro'' it dosent work. and your not welcome by the way

[Asker]

It's okey man, I don't know what you have been true that made you have this kind of view towards women but I hope things will get better for you with time.

[Asker]

Have been through*