What's the most common thing guys don't like about girls?

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OpenClose · Accepted Answer

I mean I can't talk about all girls. But I can talk about what annoys me about the ones who annoy me.

The first is a propensity for drama. Like, hanging around guys is usually pretty chill. Criticism is often done in jokes so it doesn't ruin the tone. But depending on the girl, they'll have, like, this strong urge to stir up drama, or an attraction towards it. Some girls I've known thought their relationship was falling apart, or that their boyfriends had become boring, because there wasn't enough drama in the relationship.

The next is that too many girls seem to, like, revel in being dependent. "TeeHee, I don't know how to fix a car. Let me find a boy to do it for me." Like, guys weren't born with our skillsets, we learned them. Because we wanted to learn to do it ourselves. You got the perfect opportunity to be the hot girl with a wrench covered in motor oil. Or like, I LOVE being able to show girls how to do these things. But if you just want me to do them for you while you go text your friends, I'll assume your life has consisted of batting your eyes a couple times to get people to do stuff for you so that you don't have to put in the effort yourself.

Continuing with that, there's also the same girls who will put little effort into making new relationships happen. Then just expect guys to show up and put in all the forward effort. And then get all mad at MEN for not approaching them and flirting with them. LIke... cool, but what are YOU doing? If you're waiting for guys to just show up, then the guys who do show up have already put in more effort than you. You're not in much of a position to judge.

But yeah, most girls I'm friends with aren't really like this all that much. They may have one or two of them, but everyone has one or two things like this.

ARWINGx1 · Accepted Answer

(Can't speak for all guys. So instead, I'll give my two cents on it)

At least if it's the guy who'd have a harder time in this case/example: 'course, it depends on the girl, but one way or another, they CAN make it difficult* (for no reason) for the guy to maintain the girl's "affection".
*(or even stressful)

In my case, can't help but worrying that even trivial things (such as arguing over disagreements) can have negative impact on ones relationship.

Or simply being in a "strictly traditional" Monogamous relationship (such as that I shouldn't even say "Hi" to another girl. No matter what.)

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

The thing I have heard the most is that they can't get them to have sex with them more easily and at the same time have them not be considered a slut. This is just one example of how guys think... lol

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I would say guys do not like fake girls or complicated girls

OlderAndWiser · Answer

"I'll be ready in just five minutes" almost always means at least a half hour.

ohshee · Answer

Well I can't speak for any other guy I can only speak for me first of all I love a girl that can dance but what I don't like about a girl is if she has a big mouth if she acts as if she is better than everybody else and if she talks crap about other people those are my pet peeves that I do not like that I walk away from

Lionman95 · Answer

The way of communication like there are questions where a guy feels he can´t answer right. That´s for me the biggest problem because in these situations I sometimes feel like if I don´t answer she´s disappointed but if I answer chances are high that she´s angry at me.
So what to do best`?

Now_Here · Answer

Being unclear on several things and acting surprise we didn't figure out xD.
As easy it might be to figure things out at times, there are still times of confusion. Don't take it too badly or be shocked when we ask to clear it up. :)

Dchrls78104 · Answer

It would annoy me to no end if a girl:
1. Took a long time to dress.
2. Measured a man by the size of his paycheque.
3. Failed to take personal responsibility for her actions, choices, and decisions.
4. Whined, complained, or used tears or any kind of manipulation to get her way.
5. Wore revealing clothes in public while in a relationship (if it were my girlfriend).

Anonymous · Answer

Lol how much time do you have
1. talk to much
2. turn something into nothing
3. worry too much
4. think we think like them
5. try to change us
6. date bad boys then get knocked up, look for a good man to clean up her mess
7. get their feelings hurt easy
8. take forever to get ready
9. doesn’t care what we eat but when you suggest something she says no
10. doesn’t offer to pay even though he will most likely say no
Ok I’m done too much to keep going lol

Anonymous · Answer

The thing I dislike about most women is their pathological obsession with "feelings" and talking about them.
For being so "empathetic" women sure have trouble accepting that men just don't work that way and that what they are trying to do is really just an annoying and unwelcome projection of their own tendencies that men, on average, simply do not match women in.

talka20 · Answer

Assuming n then starting argument over it... sit n talk method i always prefer... n fine if u assumed some n told me... but now if i tell u the whole thing then just accept it

Miristheiss · Answer

Nagging, Gossiping to others about private relationship matters or private info. Always worried, finding something to be unhappy or stressed about Slutty, party girl type, exhibitionist type behavior.

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

My guess is going to be either how we communicate with them (we don't break it down to problem/answer levels) or a perceived notion of ease in quality of life.

Guy13 · Answer

-MUSTACHE HAIR

-GORILLA ARMPITS

-KNOW MORE ABOUT GUY THINGS THAN ME…

-NO…NO…NO, please…. here take the money clip…or bank bag…and I’ll get you an Uber BUT PLEASE…please 🙏 . 🥺 .🙏.
NOT THE MALL

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Talking just for the sake of holding my attention when she knows we arnt talking about anything that's going anywhere. Dumb stuff, if the conversation isn't productive im gonna assume she's slow

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

It's nothing exclusive I have towards woman that bugs me. I seriously don't like people that talk meaningless ish.

Kaneki05 · Answer

To me it is when they just talk about clothes and shoes. Simple as that really might as well be talking about golf. Because both would make me more depressed than I already am.

Anonymous · Answer

arrogance

you girls are to full of yourself
because guys like you

WHICH WE ARE SUPPOSE TO LIKE YOU
its how GOD designed it

so when I was younger I had a bunch of girls like me
DOES THAT MEAN IM BETTER THEN ALL THE OTHER GUYS LOL

no im not
im a regular guy
you girls need to get over yourselves
you are just like every other girl
you all bleed every month

Kaamraj · Answer

Non reciprocation and not making effort to get to know the other person when you're dating. It seems like she's got so many options that one small accidental screw up and I'm gone.

Heartache0405 · Answer

- Selfishness - Self objectification and other double standards - Modern day female nature in general

MCheetah · Answer

Their whining, nagging, complaining, and general selfishness.

DaveJord · Answer

Insecurities- guys like confident women period any type of insecurities and especially any insecurity about intimacy and sex are a huge red flag.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

The constant insecurity and attention seeking. The constant flip-flopping of saying one thing and doing another.

rebeliouse · Answer

@girlwholovesdancing
nagging and pestering and thinking its ok not to deal with guys sexual frustrations.

they would get a lot more out of guys if they tried to understand how sexual frustration cripples us

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

I’m here for the comments lol

innerman · Answer

blah... blah... blah... blah... blah... blah... blah... blah... blah... blah... blah... blah... blah... blah... c’mon guys, you can’t recite a dictionary to me in 4mins. One sentence is enough.

MTC29 · Answer

Women talk too much. Bring on the frowny faces.

AviatorTom · Answer

Why do girls believe they are always right, and when they're not, they blame someone else?

GlassTop · Answer

Girls who always play the victim. Gold diggers. Narcissists. Neo feminists. Karens. Screamers and loud mouths. Crazies. Alcoholics and smokers.

notwoke · Answer

when they are fat or gain weight thinking they know everything  Withholding pussy too much spending requiring pets to be in the house two hours to get ready to go pull weeds

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I don't like racist, closed minded, rude, disloyal girls. Girls who judge you based on one sentence quickly, or due to your race, religion etc.

NorthwestRider · Answer

I do not the ones who think they can't work at a high paying career and just settle for a low quality dead end job

DownIndaDumpz · Answer

when they dont want sex/ dont like sex/ dont care for sex

Tjw78 · Answer

How they are self-conscious and hate the weird things about themselves that make guys fall for them.

Zolly99999 · Answer

In general about ALL girls nothing.. but but for individual girls... Arrogance, being self-centered, being judgmental , hair on her whoha

Anonymous · Answer

Princess mentality, superficial, thinks women are better then men. The hypocrisy they spew

Aphrodite801 · Answer

Hmm I don't know, a lot don’t like when we have basic rights so that’s a thing

Hulk30 · Answer

i like to focus on the positive goin into negative shit about women dont exactly make ya look smooth with women so that's why i dont focus on that

Anonymous · Answer

Putting in more effort than we get back with little to no appreciation seems to be the thing I get a lot.

Anonymous · Answer

Trashy behavior like racism or sexism. And sexually transmitted disease behavior like tattoos and cigarettes

Charliefretz329 · Answer

When they are extra noisy and bitchy. And when they withhold sex after y’all are together.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

nagging, boiling household pets, sulking, laughing at our sex organs.

TallAnon · Answer

Drama and asking too many questions about subjects we try to dismiss.

Anonymous · Answer

How they act interested then stops being interested like you were interested in me first 😂 and then it’s like they forget every single thing that they ever said but guess who didn’t forget? ME

ashish804 · Answer

when they don't let us bang them when we really wanna bang them

Nightmoon88 · Answer

That most women in relationships arnt willing to try new things sexually

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Entitlement, egocentrism, selfishness and overall an unappreciative behavior

Gangactivities911 · Answer

Delusional narcissism and misandry are the biggest problem I see in women

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Just tell us why you're mad

Anonymous · Answer

Bitchiness, man hating, and assuming we're all the same way

Parzival226 · Answer

40% of you guys are too fucking innocent

Anonymous · Answer

The entitlement and absolutely insane expectations. The false victim complex. The complete lack of dignity and class.

Anonymous · Answer

Promiscuity, and / or high body count.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

I would say nagging is #1.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

They have vocal cords.

megabamse · Answer

Super long nails. That's just so trashy

noohair · Answer

The woman's prerogative.

DGravez6 · Answer

For me, it's when they're telling a lie.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Uhh either fat or slut.

CubaPirate · Answer

Periods and all that that entails lol

Playboy2424 · Answer

Their dress... I like undressed girls 😂

ManHater · Answer

The bleed every month.

msc545 · Answer

They complain too much and talk too much.

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