not keeping his promise. not calling me all day long. and shut down all communications. For example, if my message on WhatsApp is not sent, if he does not keep his promise to me, if he does not call me during the day and not asks me, this is a red flag. and I think such a person betrayed me and end the relationship!!
I call it the girls (or guys) self gratification quotient. If self gratifying is more important than me…red flag. You know…more important that she just gets what she wants. I’m always expected to sacrifice. It won’t be long before she wants someone other than me.
Controlling, suffocating, no personal boundaries, insecure, jealous, alcoholic, friends w/alcohol/drug abuse problems, his priorities are always first..
@Pixel343 I mean more about them letting an innocuous detail that theyblied about slip. If theyblie about little things they will loe about big things. They won't get to the stage of having to explain themselves and sound honest because I won't get that intimate with them.
People that join multi-level marketing. I learned my lesson my ex husband join Amway.
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I don't like it when people (girls in my case) think the other person owes them anything. I don't think a woman or a man do favors for the other person by going out with them or doing things for them
Bragging about mental health issues Being a party girl Talks to people she slept with in the past No goals Self entitled.
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Liberalism in all its aspects is a red flag for me. Liberal ideology is toxic, harmful and immoral. Atheism, feminism, support for LGBT or BLM, these are unacceptable things.
I've noticed that often people who usually preach "open minded," "acceptance," and "tolerance" are actually the most intolerant, the most toxic, and the most hateful to all those who disagree with them, so the whole liberal ideology is woven of hypocrisy and double standards.
@Razp_Sorbet Although I would list a closed mind #1 on my red flag list, we have to remember that these list are personal. A liberal person would not fit with this girl and so her red flag list is perfect for her. She observed herself and her dislikes then made a great list for her. That is one reason why your question is so great.
Women who... 1.) Constantly hook up with guys 2.) Have high body count 3.) Only wants to party 4.) Drinks or smokes 5.) Asks if you are going to be buying her things
@anastasianowak84 because it tells me that they are not the kind to want a long term relationship and tells me that they don't value a relationship for what it should be but rather see a relationship as something you get involved in just for sex. I also fear catching an std.
Girls that have blocked him Tries to get me to do crazy requests like finding girls on Tinder to fuck to show him Previous friends that tell me what he's done
If she talks about past relationships on our first date. Complete mistake. Don't start out again with failure, come with interests and where you see yourself going forward.
Arrogance (not to be confused with confidence), Really into astrology, self-righteousness, controlling, rudeness, overly materialistic, easily jealous, spiteful, fake. To list a few of the things.
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Her being overweight... shows she doesn't respect herself, so why would I expect her to respect me.
Not having many friends... why are people not attracted to her, even at a friendship level.
Spends more than she makes... if she overspend with her money, she is going to overspend getting into my bank account! Not happening!!
not keeping his promise. not calling me all day long. and shut down all communications. For example, if my message on WhatsApp is not sent, if he does not keep his promise to me, if he does not call me during the day and not asks me, this is a red flag. and I think such a person betrayed me and end the relationship!!
I call it the girls (or guys) self gratification quotient. If self gratifying is more important than me…red flag. You know…more important that she just gets what she wants. I’m always expected to sacrifice. It won’t be long before she wants someone other than me.
When they are extremely religious, lie , homophobic/racist, too controling or think that woman should be obedient to them.
A friend of someone you find annoying who you don’t know the name of even but asks to kiss you.
Usually If it was to be a stable relationship you would go on a date first.
Controlling, suffocating, no personal boundaries, insecure, jealous, alcoholic, friends w/alcohol/drug abuse problems, his priorities are always first..
A woman whom I am getting to know but puts in very little effort and acts like she's got tons of options.
As soon as the first tiny lie comes out of their, mouth they are already out of any serious running with me.
I have NO IDEA why a put a comma there.
what if he has trouble sounding honest under pressure?
@Pixel343 I mean more about them letting an innocuous detail that theyblied about slip. If theyblie about little things they will loe about big things. They won't get to the stage of having to explain themselves and sound honest because I won't get that intimate with them.
Overly religious and judgmental of others
Homophobic and narcissistic
Does drugs and sleeps around
Stuck up and manipulative
People that join multi-level marketing. I learned my lesson my ex husband join Amway.
I don't like it when people (girls in my case) think the other person owes them anything. I don't think a woman or a man do favors for the other person by going out with them or doing things for them
Bragging about mental health issues
Being a party girl
Talks to people she slept with in the past
No goals
Self entitled.
Liberalism in all its aspects is a red flag for me. Liberal ideology is toxic, harmful and immoral. Atheism, feminism, support for LGBT or BLM, these are unacceptable things.
I don't know think you could argue being closed minded and not accepting of others is a toxic trait
I've noticed that often people who usually preach "open minded," "acceptance," and "tolerance" are actually the most intolerant, the most toxic, and the most hateful to all those who disagree with them, so the whole liberal ideology is woven of hypocrisy and double standards.
Don't have to be tolerant of assholes which is why you don't like it 🤷🏻♀️
Don't have to be tolerant of anyone, in principle, if it behaves disrespectfully or imposes crazy "woke" views on you.
@Razp_Sorbet Although I would list a closed mind #1 on my red flag list,
we have to remember that these list are personal.
A liberal person would not fit with this girl and so her red flag list is perfect for her.
She observed herself and her dislikes then made a great list for her.
That is one reason why your question is so great.
Instant red flag: her stories where she describes herself involve getting drunk, passing out, or heavy partying.
Anger issues, has to consult his mom for everything, doesn't like opening up
Lack of confidence on one side and arrogance on the other.
I need somewhere in the middle :)
Women who...
1.) Constantly hook up with guys
2.) Have high body count
3.) Only wants to party
4.) Drinks or smokes
5.) Asks if you are going to be buying her things
This is a dumb question. Why do you not like girls who constantly hook up with guys or have a high body count?
@anastasianowak84 - I assume it disrupts a womans pairbonding ability to major degrees.
@anastasianowak84 because it tells me that they are not the kind to want a long term relationship and tells me that they don't value a relationship for what it should be but rather see a relationship as something you get involved in just for sex. I also fear catching an std.
Girls that have blocked him
Tries to get me to do crazy requests like finding girls on Tinder to fuck to show him
Previous friends that tell me what he's done
If she talks about past relationships on our first date. Complete mistake. Don't start out again with failure, come with interests and where you see yourself going forward.
Arrogance (not to be confused with confidence), Really into astrology, self-righteousness, controlling, rudeness, overly materialistic, easily jealous, spiteful, fake. To list a few of the things.