Is a 16 year old boy being in a relationship with a 13 year old girl wrong?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Depending on your local laws, it could possibly be considered illegal and pedophiliac… 16 could be considered an adult, and 13 is a child.


Morally, I think it’s wrong. Although it’s only a 3 year age gap, what would they have in common? One is still in middle school, one is a sophomore in highschool. And if you have intentions to have sex, I think it’s even more wrong.


I don’t think it’s the best idea. There’s girls or boys in your age/grade in school, why not go after them?

[cryscrys1]

It’s disturbing to be honest
I know we live in democracy time and in so called different era of technology (fake ideology by the way made purposely to destroy families ) anyways dating should be done 18+ for both male and female.
Or if you are so in love 🤦‍♀️ (You think so) than maybe 17+ for both M and F.


You are 16 that is too young but the girl who’s 13 holy f
She is going to be a young mama at this point. By 38 a grandma.


I know you need love at 13 but honestly take life easy. Its like 4-5 years til you make 18.


Spend those years innocently even if your are mentally sexually or “grown up”. You will miss those days of being a child and innocent. You can even be dumb and people will still laugh at you looking at you cutely bc you are so young.. when you make such jokes in adult years no one will laugh at you they are going to stare at you lol. see spend you teen years and childhood years as innocent as possible.

[josephinelcajon]

Typically a 16 yr old would find a 13 yr old too young. I can see unusual situations where the 13 yr old is muture and the 16 not and they are then more equals

[Dchrls78104]

Neither is old enough to have a healthy functioning relationship. What would the boy (or the girl!) do if she should become pregnant?

[laurieluvsit]

Parents will have to pay the cost and share in the emotional trauma that would result from pregnancy so I think common sense would say yes, it's wrong in the strictest sense.

[caitycat21]

I’m almost 16 and could never be in a relationship with a 13 year old? They’re literally basically children

[caitycat21]

What the hell would y’all even have in common

[lrina]

yes, it is. a 3 year age gap is HUGE during that time. in my opinion, 13 is a bit young to date but even if you did date at that age, any age above 15 is way too much.

[whereismyjohnny]

Yes!

Also I think dating at 16 is too early but whatever floats your boat 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not wrong but be careful of state age of consent laws and don’t exchange nudes

[Cubus]

Just relationship is ok, as long as you do not do anything.

[SnakeBoop]

thats called rape and being a pedophile.

[kitkills]

On a technicality you couldn't say that's being a pedophile, as that's not an adult.

[SnakeBoop]

@kitkills thats still a pedo to me.

[Imsmurter1]

You’re both too young

[Dchrls78104]

Exactly.

[Wise4myage]

Way wrong man.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Yeah