Every guy I have dated has cheated on me. 2 of my exes bashed me up and told me any man that I will date will hit me. I have been scared after this?

[Anonymous]

I am now scared to date. I feel like I'm not good enough

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I’m sorry about your experiences. I understand it. Don’t be afraid to date. Not every guy is a piece of shit, cheater, or abuser.


I’ve had my fair share of shitty relationships, one after the other, but I didn’t let that stop me from finding the right guy, and I eventually did.


What you need to do is set boundaries, you need to have standards or expectations. I don’t know what you did in your past relationships regarding boundaries, but you can’t just ignore a red flag the first time you see one. You need to make your expectations and standards very clear too.


If you are truly afraid of dating, I suggest you talk with a therapist to help you overcome this fear and start to trust people again. Therapists can also help you guard yourself and set boundaries.

[Anonymous]

Avoid guys unless you are sure he is 100% worth it. Most guys are not.

[TommyMountainFigure]

The only thing wrong is your ability to pick out a decent guy for yourself.

[Anonymous]

Not good enough? How about: you suck at selecting partners?

[Avicenna]

You need to build confidence by having male friends first (ones who respect you)

[In_Trance]

Pick different guys in the future