Would this be a good move to make?

[Movingup9229]

Hello everyone I made an account because I need some advice. I saw this girl for 6 months and we really liked each other and we're planning on being in a relationship but we got into a big fight and we ended it. But the thing is that I want to get her back. It's been a week today and on Sunday I want to tell her I left my stuff there as an excuse to see her. I plan on asking if she wants to talk before I go over and I'm hoping she will be receptive to talking. If she says no, I'll have to respect that. But either way, after we talk or not I'm gonna give her a letter that says "I'm dedicated to making this work. I'll continue to show you this through my actions." And I'm gonna spray it with my cologne. I think it's a really good idea because she's the kind of girl that would appreciate that a lot. What do you guys think? Is this a good idea?

[Itsok2behapp-e]

No.

Reading the comments you state your needs weren't being met and she put no effort in.

You think a gesture like you state is going to make her change her ways? Fuck no. Why would she?

Stop. Don't waste any more time and energy on someone who doesn't appreciate you.

Open your eyes and look around... There are so many more women out there.

Take a step forward and leave the past where it belongs, in the past.

[Itsok2behapp-e]

Thank you for Superb Opinion :-)

[TommyMountainFigure]

Can I make a suggestion?
Whilst gestures are all well and good, might you not be better off sorting out fixing the cause of the argument? I'm sure if there is any chance of a future together, she would appreciate that more.

[Movingup9229]

Yeah true. If she wants to talk about things then I'm down for that. What do I do if she doesn't want to talk? Give her more time?

[Movingup9229]

If by chance things go good when I try to talk to her, I can do the note idea later on

[TommyMountainFigure]

Can you tell me a bit about what caused the fight? It will make it easier to advise you.

[Movingup9229]

Because I felt like my needs weren't being met. And she doesn't put any effort in. I do all the work and only got a thank you for one date. I got fed up with it and told her in a harsh way. My mistake. But my thinking now is that maybe she shows her appreciation in different ways that I'm not used to. But still want her to put effort in.

[TommyMountainFigure]

First off I'm not saying you are wrong k? But, I cannot see a way you can prevent it all blowing up again in the future unless she changes. Therefore, I don't think you will do any good by apologising. You saying sorry won't make her change, that can ONLY come from her.

[Movingup9229]

Yeah that's fine I know you're not saying I'm wrong. Well I think she's willing to meet my needs but I just have to communicate it to her. And as long as I control my emotions I'll be fine

[Movingup9229]

And I don't plan on apologizing, just plan on talking about things

[TommyMountainFigure]

K.. All we can do now then is keep everything crossed. Good luck buddy.

[Movingup9229]

Thank you. I called her and I'm gonna take it from here

[Movingup9229]

Hey I got a question. Do you have any idea why she would delete me from Snapchat but not Instagram? I posted a couple stories on Snapchat but she didn't look at them too, just deleted me

[Iron_Man]

Shower her with gifts fine dining roses chocolates jewelry do whatever you have to do to get her back

[In_Trance]

why don't you just call her?

[Movingup9229]

Because I don't think she'll want to talk on the phone and I'm giving her space

[In_Trance]

Giving her soace... and going to see her. Right

[Movingup9229]

I should just talk to her

[Anonymous]

Nope. Move on.