I wanna know if this girl is joking around or is actually genuine?

[emzalex]

So she slid in my DM's, said she wanted to talk.. I saw the message a week later ( I don't use Instagram that much), when I replied she flirted and said we would look good together and that I look cute. I found her attractive as well but I dunno what to say to her because she doesn't open up a lot even on basic things like hobbies and stuff. She doesn't even try to start a conversation on her own and i am really confused at this point. Do I start messaging her more or smth?

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+1 y

Chatted with her for a while, seems out she was nervous but was trying to get out of her comfort zone by flirting and stuff.. Her friends told her to stop showing interest that much 'cause apparently that would keep me intrigued.

[virtue2332]

Who knows maybe she just wants something casual Soo all the small talk isn't necessary for her and she doesn't want to jump through all the hoops. If this is the case she may not know how to go about it and doesn't want to come off looking that way. Is she single?

[Avicenna]

Sounds like a potential catfish

[emzalex]

yeah, could be but her account looks legit soo.. i dunno

[Flower_Power]

Wait, do you know this person in real life? If not, it's probably a scam of some sort. I sometimes get DMs asking if I wanna be someone's sugar baby. I would just ignore it.

[emzalex]

I dont know her irl

[Flower_Power]

Yeah, just ignore the message. It sounds like a scam. You can never be too careful when it comes to that stuff.

[PrettyPriya]

Wait, so she DMs you wanting to talk but doesn’t like conversation? I must be missing something.

[emzalex]

wish I could post SS's.. but basically the conversation went like.

Her -"Hey
Please listen,
He told me to message you"

I replied - "just saw this now"
"who told you to message me?"

She said - "The lord"
"He told me we would look good together"

[emzalex]

Then she added, "Enough of my flirting"
"Sorry if I bothered you"

[PrettyPriya]

The lord told her to message?

[emzalex]

It was pick-up line but yeah

[PrettyPriya]

Weird pickup line. Ok, so you have tried to message her back and don't get much out of her? If that is the case, I'd suggest to her meeting for lunch or something. One on one in person you will get a much better feel if she is into you, shy or otherwise.

Has there been talk of meeting up?

[emzalex]

She lives in another state :^)

[In_Trance]

I think it's a catfish