Why is my boyfriend with me if he doesn't trust me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend doesn't trust me around other men. When I'm around other men he has to watch me like surveillance. I don't think I've done anything for him to not trust me.

[alytaylor]

That is a reflection of his trust issues, not anything you have done! Some guys get more jealous than others, but he's essentially worried that some other guy will peak your interest and you'll leave him for "someone better". He has self worth issues, and may have been cheated on in the past.

[topramen1565]

He's doing what he is supposed to. That is to ensure his girl won't leave him for some other guy and cuff her ten times over. But forcreal though, as I guy, I get anxiety and incredibly scared when a girl I like is vibing with other guys and panick if she's going to leave me or not.

[LaNc3L0TT]

If you are "too friendly" with other boys I think you should control that. But if you behaving normal and he have those bursts of insecurity I think you should talk about it because that issue will be always there and will prevent of you two having healthy relationship.

[Anonymous]

He might have baggage and insecurities from things women in past relationships have done. Or, it might indeed by things you are doing or have done that make him not trust you. Are you sure you're not doing anything? I'm not saying you are, but I've seen plenty of cases where a woman doesn't thing she is doing anything wrong but in fact there are subtle things she says or does with other men that undermine her partners trust in her. It's worth taking a closer look.

[UniquelyBasic]

How do you act with other men? You may see it as nothing but you may be touchy with them or flirt a little with them.

[lofii]

You need you a real man like @chefpapichulo