What are key red flags while hanging out for the first couple times? And what are the characteristics/actions that are most important when meeting?

[jaymoneyforreal]

Just use the term red flag for negatives and use the term green flag for positive things you look for.

[SueShe]

Could I recommend you remove your profile picture as it infringes against the rule of GaG against posting pornographic content.

But since I have your attention, I would say that the first thing that I would consider a red flag is that people have the need to have a nude picture of themselves in their accounts. That is the worst red flag possible because it gives a pretty good information as to the intellect, character and personality of the person itself.

That is a total turn off for any woman because she immediately knows that the guy is solely in for the sexual part in a relation and not because of the person herself.

If the profile picture is not removed within 10 minutes, I shall take action and report you to GaG administrators.

[SueShe]

It seems that you don't want to understand that there are children on this site that do not need to see that smut. Have it your way, I will have it mine. Good bye.

[Cherry234]

Some red flags for me are if the guy I'm dating doesn't get along with his family (not necessarily a deal breaker but a cause for concern, depends on why he doesn't get along with them), if he tries to control me in any way, and if he tries to isolate me from friends/family. Some other red flags for me are if he says anything racist, misogynistic, homophobic, transphobic, etc. and if he has cheated before. Green flags for me are if he meets my standards and if he respects my actions, thoughts, and decisions even if doesn't agree with everything I do or say. Another green flag for me is if he shows me that he loves me and is committed to me.