What is most important to everyone body or mind in dating long term not one night stand?

[driven159]

[HighlyVolatile]

They're both rather important to me: mental health and physical health -- so to speak -- since I want her to live a very long time. I was also a sponsored athlete growing up and playing sports and doing physical activities (ex: hiking up mountains) are major interests of mine. So it helps if she's fit enough to join me.

That said, mental health might be slightly more important to me. Well, it's usually difficult to maintain even physical health if our mental health is on the decline, and someone with mental health issues might become abusive depending on what they're suffering.

[HighlyVolatile]

Another thing is that physical health is something I might be able to help with more if it's declining. I'm not a professional but I've poured in lots of time studying nutrition and fitness, and I like to be an amateur fitness coach for my friends. I think I could help a woman with declining physical health and being out of shape to get her back on track towards a healthier and fitter lifestyle.

Yet I wouldn't know what to do nearly as much for someone suffering mental problems except to suggest they seek a professional therapist.

[JuanVeIasco]

For a long-term relationship, beauty matters first, then being submissive.