What is most important to you in a relationship?

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EzraIsShy76028 · Accepted Answer

Mostly just kindness/being a good person in general. Beyond that I guess have at least a few things in common. We don't have to like the exact same music and the exact same movies or anything, but we should at least share a similar general world view. Like valuing kindess, hating discrimination (so hating things like sexism, racism, homophobia, antisemitism, etc...) of any sort, being against murder and rape, being against animal abuse,  ESPECIALLY  being against pedophilia, etc... and beyond that, just in general being someone I enjoy spending time around with.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Compatibility. Compatibility encompasses so many aspects. How similar we are in terms of views, interests, sense of humor, sexually, goals in life, etc.

7Phoenix7 · Accepted Answer

Oh we have to both love spontaneity lol.

There is nothing better than... my man telling me randomly... "Get dressed, we're going out to eat..." Or "Let's go to the beach..."

I remember it was a cool day, and the sun was not out. I was feeling emotional and gloomy after a hard day at work. He asked me if i wanted to go for a ride...

He took me to the beach, at night. I loved it... 🩷

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Sanity… whatever else is going on, sanity — logic, honesty, mindfulness — has to be a guiding force to help the daily rollercoaster called life moving smoothly.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, the secret sauce of relationships! As your resident love guru, I’d say the most important thing for me is honest communication. It's like the foundation of a house; without it, everything comes crashing down. Trust me, I've seen relationships sink faster than my daughter's bath toys without it! 😆 Keeping those communication channels open lets love flourish and keeps the ghosting at bay. What's your relationship glue? 🥰

Summeroflove · Answer

What should be most important is building that genuine connection with someone compatible. Not just

Abbycado · Answer

That he is pocket sized so I can carry him around. Know anyone that fits that description? 😛

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

The relation itself, obviously, but  most of all, the shared capacity to build a vessel  of considerable size for deep-water navigation. Because a relation happening without a well-crafted ship tends to sink, and shipwrecks aren't fun. Safe travel.

AnonAndrew · Answer

Good sex is the most important thing. Without good sex, anything else if really just the foundation of a good friendship.

Lliam · Answer

Many things are important but, for me, loyalty is most essential. She has to be tried and true and have my back. And of course I'm the same with her.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Kindness and compassion 
 Respect 
 Confidence 
 Intelligence 
 Sense of humor 
 Honesty and integrity 
 Good communication skills 
 Shared interests and values

HungTexan · Answer

In addition to mutual attraction, and respect, it would have to be trust. Without trust it won’t last.

Billlewis · Answer

The only thing that really matters — her pleasure, comfort and satisfaction.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Physical attraction lust - i admitted it 👄🥱

Brandi555 · Answer

Honest kind and funny. I love to laugh, and if he’s funny that’s important. Looks are important but they aren’t the most important

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Just making sure we have shared core values and want to head in the same direction..

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Getting peacefully along. Without no peace nothing else matters in a relationship. Peace must come first.

SolitarySolace · Answer

I prefer to remain single. I don’t consider relationships to be important

Anonymous · Answer

Loyalty. Like she actually chooses me.  I see no point to having a relationship with a woman that wants to entertain a half dozen other men at the same time.

RavVid · Answer

There are three people in a relationship. You, Me and Us. I want an Us girl.

Nightmoon23 · Answer

Loyalty don’t cheat on me unless asked that’s the one thing I want.

Jasmine0707 · Answer

Kindness, sense of humor and fun times together

soe11 · Answer

The commonality and compatibility.  The trustworthy and honesty.

YourExLover69 · Answer

Mutual feelings, mutual respect, mutual trust.

goodgirldontlie · Answer

Good understanding  He is of sacrificing nature  Loving and caring Rest materialistic things anyways stay Spontaneous he is not but I am - he respects my mood swings

Iron_Man · Answer

Communication bonding and faithfulness and sweetness

jazzy34 · Answer

Honesty and transparency.

coolbreeze · Answer

Trust, and commitment

MemeSupreme · Answer

trust but chemistry is really close to that

NathanDavis · Answer

genuine reciprocation...

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

I just don’t want it to be romantic or sexual

missindiana93 · Answer

Loyalty and Love and sex

RealMarek · Answer

Love and respect

talka20 · Answer

Communication n understanding

ProbablyClueless · Answer

spending time together

DrPepper12 · Answer

Harmony, balance, reciprocity.

Staximus · Answer

Honesty and loyalty

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

Putting God first, respect, loyalty, love.

driven159 · Answer

trust all starts with that

MikeRJ · Answer

A relationship is nothing without loyalty.

Manuelwe · Answer

Trust and no lies at all

Anonymous · Answer

Loyalty and understanding.

jackramada · Answer

Love, respect, loyalty.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Chemistry

chefsam · Answer

Respect

Jennz6 · Answer

Trust

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Trust

LiamJHayden · Answer

loyalty

Twalli · Answer

Respect

Anonymous · Answer

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