Why do handsome white men only date white women?

[Anonymous]

Why not any other race usually (especially Indian and Black)?

[Anonymous]

Aside from the Indian/black thing I don't really think that's true at all. For instance, white people really like Spanish chicks.

I'm just going to go off of my personal life experience, what I've witnessed growing up in a very culturally white area, there are a few "Indian" areas by me and a few areas that are mixed with mostly Spanish, black and Muslims.

White people don't date Indians for 2 reasons. These reasons aren't usually true at the same time.

They are repulsed by their culture

They do not have access to the woman as the families do not like to marry outside their race

Black people is totally different and it's really simple. Most white men have no idea how to handle a black woman. Black woman are a different breed. They will not take stupid bullshit from their man. If they find out they have been without realizing it, they will get their revenge. They have superhuman strength, they're better at talking then you are but the real problem is they can be unreasonable at times and they get entitled (all women do) but they have a way of exploding out of nowhere without any warning whatsoever.

When I've seen a black man in a situation where his wife was popping off, honestly I try to be more like them. They all know how to stay calm and when to stop giving the situation attention because they realize they're feeding the fire.

White people are also very explosive people and they don't know how to stop feeding a fire once their ego's hurt. Like, even by the slightest bit sometimes.

They lose control of themselves way too quickly to have a relationship with a black woman and the crazy part is, most white people deep down know it.

Wow, have fun with that internet.

[anniisa97]

Didn't read the rest of your answer but Spanish people are also white so

[Opinion Owner]

@anniisa97 if you're talking about culturally that is the most ignorant thing I think I've ever heard. Please do not say that to a Spanish person lmaoo

[anniisa97]

Culturally? Not sure how someone can be culturally white mate, its in the bloodline

[Opinion Owner]

@anniisa97 the question was asking why white men only date white woman. This is not a question of the biology of a person's skin color but rather their culture.

A white person from Ireland will behave totally differently than a white man from South Africa. They might look the same and they might have some similar genes but they grew up under completely different circumstances. Cultures are complicated and change depending on a lot of factors. If you go to Chicago different races of people speak with different dialects and accents then in New York or California or Florida or Atlanta.

And it's not just accents a person's values, world view, eating habits and pretty much anything about them can be predicted with surprising accuracy based on understanding the culture.

You strike me as a bit of an academic so if you'd like to learn more there are literally thousands of published research papers which study these ideas.

[anniisa97]

That literally has nothing to do with the fact that Spanish people are white. Yeah, I dont think I needed to know that white people have different cultures between them, its literally the same for every other race. Its just that what you said was the equivalent of "East Asians really like Japanese chicks" it literally made no sense.

[suckmynuts369]

Uh oh, this is all sorts of racisms!!! Calling out black women as notorious hideous monstrous vile people who are a different breed. Sounds like a compliment before it never was not.

[Opinion Owner]

@anniisa97 well the flaw in your logic is saying that Spanish people are white people. That's where you're getting lost. I don't really know why you're saying that. This question boils down to culture and I can't think of two cultures more different than Spanish people and white people

[Opinion Owner]

@suckmynuts369 I'm not calling them vile, that sounds like your racism. Or maybe you just aren't exposed to them enough to understand what I'm saying. These aren't even negative qualities and a lot of black women and men don't necessarily see these as negative things. there's some things about these qualities which are empowering. I'm just saying white people don't know how to interperate these qualities because the culture is so different and they're mostly u exposed to it.

[anniisa97]

Dude, Spanish people are still white. I dont know why you're separating the two 😂

Spain is a country, Spanish is an ethnicity. For the majority of Spanish people their race is still white. So saying white people like Spanish chick's is implying that Spaniards are not white and some other racial group.

By saying that you're pretty much saying that yeah, white men only like white women... bringing it back to this question.

[Opinion Owner]

@anniisa97 oh sorry, that's my bad I forgot I was on the internet. I should have said Hispanic people

[suckmynuts369]

I'm being sarcastic. Totally racisms everywhere with everything. Someone has to do it.

[anniisa97]

Hispanic or whatever, they're still white. A white person is someone of European origin. Spain, last time I checked is in Europe, including Italy, the UK, Ireland and all the other "white countries"

[Opinion Owner]

@anniisa97 OK, this is my mistake, I live in an area where when we talk like this, we are talking about Dominicans, Peruvians, Mexicans and any other Spanish speaking culture.

I live in a very diverse place. You sound like you really only know culturally white people. I like that's why this is a difficult concept for you to grasp. Like a black person could be culturally white. Anyone can be.

[anniisa97]

Look, my point is Spanish people are white. Not culturally or whatever you're talking about, they are white people. As in Europeans because that's all a white person really is.

It sounds like you're the one that's confused. I get you're separating it in terms of culture, like Arabs are technically majority white too but from Arab culture. Spanish people are white biologically, and I guess culturally because it's literally a culture from white people. It looks like you're portraying "white" to be a culture which it isn't, its biological and you seem to only associate this with Western culture or certain European countries like Germany, Switzerland, UK, Ireland etc and then a skintone.

Anyway I'm done with this, we're just going round in circles, and I think im being pretty clear as can be.

[anniisa97]

by the way a black person can't culturally be white. A black person is a black person, they don't need to be culturally black. This whole idea is ludicrous

[Opinion Owner]

@anniisa97 @anniisa97 right because one of the most popular characters on the fresh prince of bell-air wasn't a black guy who acted white.

My mom acts white asf. She grew up in a very white area. Around here there's a lot of black people who grew up in white neighborhoods compared to probably most other places. Especially since theirs a lot of black culture very close to my area too, you get to see very clearly how culture affects behavior more than anything, and that because people of the same race tend to stick together (for many different reasons) it seems like it's because of the color of their skin.

But it gets more complicated than that because we're looking at culture on a micro scale. Zoom out and you'll realize that people to some extent identify with their skin color. This concept is harder for white people to understand. Some would argue its because most white people don't really identify themselves as white, they would normally identify as Italian, German, Canadian etc.

But a black Jamaican person will most likely identify as Jamaican and black. Or a Dominican will identify as a Hispanic but also Dominican.

It's through these self identities existing in a superposition of ethnicity and culture that this concept can be hard for some people to understand.

It's complicated but anyone who passed a Logic 101 class in college should be able to tell its far from ludicrous. In fact, it's how advertising works.

[HighlyVolatile]

They do, no? In my experience anecdotally, they do. Also among celebrities, there are a lot of interracial couples like Michael Fassbender with Nicole Beharie:

[Asker]

It doesn't seem so common.

[HighlyVolatile]

It might depend also on where you live. Like I think in very urban and fashionable areas, you tend to see far more interracial couples.

[joesheks]

@HighlyVolatile most people that aren’t virtual signaling prefer to be with those like themselves. However, with the rise of feminism and no fathers at home, girls have gotten sluttier, fatter and crazier.

Whereas earlier generations of women would not have though about dating felons, they now want to be cool and fashionable and create children whose genetics are not the best.

[little_rose]

Hmmm so not true!!

Not to be mean but this question almost sounds backwards. Maybe try looking beyond race?

I mean for a lot of people nowadays, race is not an issue when it comes to dating. It has more to do with the individuals ( their personality, how well they get along... etc) rather than their race.

[Aurora1010]

Shawn Mendes Ryan Gosling and Liam Hemsworth are handsome and dated non white women, Ryan Gosling is even married to a brown Latina

[Asker]

I asked about Indian and black women. Latinas are still pretty popular.

[Aurora1010]

Nick Jonas is hot and married an Indian woman

[Aurora1010]

And everyone was saying the comment section that he was lucky to marry Priyanka too, not the other way around

[Asker]

That's the only example people give. It is an exception.

[OlderAndWiser]

Most people are primarily attracted to their own race.

[adventurous-1]

I don't believe that is as true today as it was years ago, they is much more intermixing of the races now that ever before, I personally look more at the woman as a whole person rather that just a color. Is she attractive, takes care of herself and her appearance. Is she interesting to talk to, fun to be with, does she seem to be a good person, and what interests do we share. The biggest thing to me is "is she approachable" receptive to conversation and open to meeting me. Sometimes women present a "not interested/do not approach appearance" when you first notice them and you figure why waste my time and move on. I find many women of color beautiful, sexy, and totally hot and would love to get to know them better. I believe that many more white men feel that way that what you are giving them credit for. ;-)

[SamIam96]

Your question implies that guys who aren't handsome will date other races. It feels like you think dating Indian or black women is some kind of compromise.

I've dated both Indian and black women. TBH, the opportunity doesn't present itself very often. Neither relationship progressed very far. I don't think race had any role in that. I still have fond memories of both women.

[Sixgunsound]

I dated an immigrant black woman from Ghana while in college our first year in our programs. She was awesome and I was a stupid kid at the time, otherwise I could see us still being together. She’s a doctor by now, as this was in the mid 2000’s. I would never dream of saying I was better than her then or now.

[crossdressingrihno]

I have no clue what you're talking about

There are some pretty attractive men out there who dated black women

I'm admittedly not the most beautiful man on the planet but I had a friend who was from India and I actually wound up having feelings for her

We don't talk anymore and kind of lost contact but yeah I remember her quite fondly

[Anonymous]

That's not true at all. A lot of good looking guys I know go for any girl as long as they are attracted to them and don't really look at ethnicity, more about how they look in general. However, often it might be white girls simply because that's what they're around more. Also, some people date more within their own ethnicity.

[Anonymous]

I met smokin hot black girl i was into her till i saw the cigarette in her hands i can't deal with that generally speaking white are more beautiful. But i had black ex girlfriend i wouldn't say very black she was kind and generous. Tbh most black girls have irritated personality i think you agree with that

[ChrisMaster69]

Erm that’s not true lol

spent last couple weeks down in Birmingham, quite a lot of Indian girls with white boyfriends and husbands

[loveslongnails]

Some handsome white men DO date other races. A lot has to do with who you meet in your area. There are plenty of beautiful women from other races that I'd personally date, but there's a lot of cross-cultural differences to consider.

[Randomguy0000]

People tend to date within their own race the most. Nothing out of the ordinary lol.

[Anonymous]

They don't. White women are the least desired in this new generation. Especially in America. Every attractive white man wants a woman of color not some bland, boring, flat butt white woman. I'm assuming you're a chubby white girl making this post.

[Lionman95]

Because that´s what they find attractive, sometimes there´s no deeper reason behind besides attraction.

[RawIronhide]

I don't know maybe it's cultural. I definitely would but I tend to relate better with people who come from the same background as me.

[Horror_lover92]

Not true, I have seen lot's of handsome guys some even look like a model, and even fit, and I have seen some with black women, Hispanic, Asian, etc...

[TransAm85]

That's not true. I don't really like white guys, but there's a few cute ones I know. One married this Mexican/Indian girl. She is very pretty.

[jammcm]

If I was not married I would be dating someone of another race, but to answer your question, As a youth I was discouraged by my family from dating someone of a different race. I can't answer for other people.

[desidoll]

Not true. My fiancé is white. He is tall, cute and loving.

[Berethor]

Because whites are the most beautiful race on earth.

[Avicenna]

Im pretty sure they date all races (although attractiveness is subjective)

[Grape-Soda]

Only? Where do you get this from? Statistically they date women from other races fare more than say Indian or East Asian males.

[msc545]

We mostly date white women because they are more attractive to us. Personally, I prefer Hispanic women as they are the most attractive women for me in many ways.

[genericname85]

People in general are most likely to date within their ethnicity.

[Danny_dan92]

This isn’t true. You’re racially profiling and sterotyping like crazy

[RebeccaBI2000]

I have come across many white men who date other races. Even myself

[PinkPower]

People can date whoever they want from any race but most men prefer someone shares the same skin color as them for many reasons starting with society.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's natural for them to desire their own white women. They come from the womb of one and their family is white women.

[Waldoe]

people do not "choose" who they are attracted too, for men, it is usually someone that reminds them of Mother

[Creampiekarl420]

Actually the really really handsome white guys only date white guys😂

[Zygum]

It is not necessary, but it is choice, handsome white men date Indian or Korean women and Beautiful white women date black men

[Anonymous]

Some of them do like Indian and black women. Just have to look for them.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Because handsome white men can actually get with white women while other white men simply cannot

[Anonymous]

Indian women have weird shaped bodies and black women look like monkey butt.

[Anonymous]

Why shouldn't we date our own women? Why don't you date your own?

[Lanniccy]

That sounds very hypocritical she’s not saying you can’t date ur own race she’s just asking why don’t y’all ever step out side the box sir.

[StrawberryShake]

@Lanniccy I don't think the word hypocritical was used correctly here.

[Opinion Owner]

The closest I've never dated out was a Armenian girl In 10th.
I like people who are culturally closer to me. And It seems like Black women are and indian have different culture

[Anonymous]

I don’t disagree with that at all, it’s the same for us sometimes I just think the way he came off at it was a little hostile and aggressive but yes I agree with ur point

[Anonymous]

Some of them probably wants their women just like how they like their coffee; flat white

[Anonymous]

Maybe the girl's family and friends wouldn't accept the white guy into their circle.

[Anonymous]

Don't know if I am handsome; but I date any race that is my type.

[Anonymous]

That's an assumption and even if it were true so what what do they owe you?

[Opinion Owner]

owe you nothing

[Katya98]

Lol, another provocation. It's just not true.

[Anonymous]

That’s not true. My friend is Indian and she has dated plenty of handsome white men.

[daster4442]

maybe because white women are beatiful?

[Asker]

Are you saying more beautiful?

[daster4442]

No? can you explain where i said that?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

@daster4442 Beauty is subjective. You may think that, but not everyone will agree.

[Asker]

See my question.

[daster4442]

when i said ''beatiful'' it could mean anything like personality character status why do y'all take it so seriously

[Anonymous]

We white women are the standard of beauty

[DeeRocc]

Ugly White men date ugly White women too.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Because they look good!

[OddBeMe]

I married a Latina.

Oh, you said handsome…

[iJokeTeeth]

Familiarity most likely

[Iron_Man]

It comes down to there preference

[JohnK123]

That’s not entirely true

[Guardian45]

Not true. I'm dating a Latina.

[Guardian45]

I have dated an oriental and black women too. I have NO problem dating ANY woman I find attractive!

[notwoke]

Asians also very desireable

[888theGreat]

what man of any color want to date Indian women?

[TallAnon]

But I don't just date white women.

[In_Trance]

Because that's what they like

[Matt19yo]

Not true
It's just their Circle is different

[custard83]

Small in the pants.

[Anonymous]

I see white dudes dating black girls

[Anonymous]

Glenn maxwell recently married and indian woman.

[gabby100]

That is up to them..

[jasco]

because they can

[TrillXHippy]

Because they can