Do you usually think of the same person before you go to sleep?

[Anonymous]

I noticed that since the first time I got deep feelings for a guy, (at 21), I have always had someone in mind before I fall asleep.
I feel a bit creepy, but I always think of a guy I used to be seeing on and off for 2 years. Haven’t seen him in half a year now but I still think of him everyday a lot, especially before I fall a sleep and also if I have a slow morning. I obviously still have feelings for him. But it seems like I always have to have someone to think of before sleep. Thinking of old scenarios etc

Do most people have this?

[Kaneki05]

Always if I like someone but I get limerence so I am often thinking about someone I like or possibly like.
I try not to do so though because then I cannot sleep.

[dustybiker]

Pretty natural, no? We all want someone to comfort and protect us when at our most vulnerable. Asleep.