What do you do if you are in love with two m?

[Mondana_tela]

I love two men, and I can't give up on one of them


Advice

[ZiZi_Bell]

Date them both? Lol

That's what I do. Polyamory is all about loving whoever you want. I have multiple partners, my partners have other partners, and I've never felt more whole. Like, we have our own family pretty much. And I've never been in any relationship that fostered good, open, honest communication as much as my poly relationships.

As long as everyone involved is ok with with it, there's no reason to limit what your heart wants.

[JBlade]

I dislike this very heavily but can’t deny it is possible. Like you said it only works if all parties are okay with, highly unlikely in this situation though.

[ZiZi_Bell]

I wouldn't say it's highly unlikely if you're not in their situation though. You don't know what their circumstances are, so it's not really fair to make a statement like that unless the OP says something that would back up that statement.

[JBlade]

I don’t know her situation and I only see her point of view. It’s whatever but considering she thinks she has to choose most likely means she’d have to run the idea by both of her “partners/friends” and the chance of the guys being willing to share is not high…which is safe to assume.

[ZiZi_Bell]

Eh. From my experience more and more guys are open to the idea of polyamory. Really depends on location, honestly.
And it's not a matter of sharing. They would both be in a relationship with her, and would both be free to pursue other relationships of their own. It's a relationship of equals.

[JBlade]

Sure, well good luck to her regardless. Hopefully everyone can have their cake and eat it too, meaning everyone can be satisfied.

[ZiZi_Bell]

Hopefully! As long as no one gets hurt and everyone is happy, I welcome any and all outcomes.

[JBlade]

I dislike this very heavily but can’t deny it is possible. Like you said it only works if all parties are okay with it, highly unlikely in this situation though.

[JBlade]

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[TheMajesticKing777]

You gotta make a choice or this can eventually ruin it for you and you can end up losing both of them

[scott04sa22]

find 2 married bi men who’s looking for a female in the mixed

[Wise4myage]

Flip a coin, or go on several dates to help you decide.

[LavLavLuv]

Pick one you’re in love the most