Tinder chatting need advice!! plsssss?

[Future0816]

I have recently started chatting with this nice girl on tinder. She’s really kind and seems genuine. I really want this to work out and we have even recently moved to Instagram so it feels a lot more personal now I guess. It’s the third day chatting we have gotten past the small talk and hobby intros I guess. We have also talked about our work and school life. I wanted to know if it would be ok for me to start sending small skits and memes and give funny commentary and puns maybe. I want to show more of my personality and really hope not to bore her.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Sure, why not?


You can start of a convo asking if she likes memes or tiktok, and ask her what types of memes or videos she likes, and tell her that you can send each other some.


I did that with my now boyfriend. I asked him if he liked memes, and I started sending him some. I think you two could also start making conversation based on the memes, and maybe try to go on a date?

[Future0816]

I see I see. Yea that sounds like a plan! Thank you! Wish me luck!

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Good luck! Hope all goes well.

[Future0816]

It worked!!! She said “ hell yea!” She seems excited! Lmao I feel so gitty

[Future0816]

Don’t know why I was nervous

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Ahh, it’s normal to feel anxious about it. Sometimes people aren’t very interested in memes or whatever, so we have that rejection in the back of our minds.

I’m glad she’s excited… Ask her what type of memes or videos, and tell her that she can send you memes too.

[Future0816]

I know right! Rejection is so scary! But year thanks I appreciate it! And I will ask her, that’s a great idea!