What do you think is worse when dating: someone only into you for sex or someone only into you for your money?

[Still-alive]

Someone who is only into you for sex is worse

Someone only into you for your money is worse

They are both equally bad

I dont see these thongs as issues in dating

[Aerissa_Jade]

If someone uses someone for money, once they are gone... they can still earn more money to get it back but if someone uses someone for sex. No way to undo any emotional damage or to undo anything sexual that happened. It is a life time of pain for the victim, once the user moves on.

As such I say using someone for sex is worse, but only if they think you are really into them. Basically they are lying and pretending to get sex.

If someone is using someone for sex and they are okay with it, then it probably wouldn't be an issue as they are aware of what is going on and not being mislead.

[Sour-rose]

Sex. Because we ain't havin' it and you're a fool thinking I'm okay with having sex with anyone. You don't know what is in my pants or how hairy it is... so best not open that forbidden chest.

[Still-alive]

What about for money? Not as bad huh?

[Sour-rose]

1. How da hell are you still awake, it's 2ish in the fartin' morning.

2. No, because as far as anyone concerned, I'm as poor as the next girl next to me in the bathroom. (on the road to change that tho)

[Still-alive]

Only 12am where im at :p

[menina]

Both are equally bad in my opinion. If someone is dating you just for sex they don't see you as a human being, they see you as a sex object. Whereas if they date you just for money they don't care about you, they see you as an ATM which is horrible too.

[Still-alive]

Well i guess with me its expected since i have a keypad and money tray on my body after all :p

[menina]

Yeah I guess so 😂😂😂

[Ninania]

At least they're into some part of *me* if they want to have sex with me. Money isn't at all personal.

[zyxacb]

I reason what's the difference- height, confidence, sex, money - nearly everyone I find is using another for something else, hence why so many relationships/marriages end unhappy, or in divorce, or in therapy with each trying to rebuild that feeling of satisfaction they found originally, and are now left craving - wanting to change the other individual to use them to get said satisfaction... nearly all relationships are games of "yes" and "no", hence why people follow "relationship advice" to manipulate a "yes" out of another to achieve the desired satisfaction within themselves.

[CrazyGirl2]

Both are bad, it’s difficult to say one over the other! As a girl raised to understand that there are “boys” out there who “will be with you for your money, and most guys will only be with you for sex, if you allow that”. I guess that I’m acutely aware that I need to be careful not to allow either into my life. So for that reason, each is as bad as the other!

[NathanDavis]

money, for sure...

there's been a few people who have approached me interested on "just some fun" and I just let them know I'm not into that stuff, and that's it...

but, when some bad people want some money, you can't just get out of it that easily... lol (knocking on wood)

[Киттйлинк]

both are sad excuses to be with someone
However, having sex with someone can "Sometimes" make a person fall in love with you, which as a small percent of chance for the person being used...

As opposed to the one using you for money, that "sometimes" declines by a LOT and as soon as the money Is gone so are they, and if it's never gone, they usually cheat on you and stay with you for money. Almost zero chance they will ever love you.

[Киттйлинк]

they are both sad though if you don't know that you are being used.

[Киттйлинк]

oh I already said that haha ok bye.

[Tutchang_]

oh that's true, i guess. i shouldn't be thinking of a fictional plot though it has a chance of becoming a true lovers when having sex? but i thnk they will just realize it after u guys quit of being a sex partner...

[petitedollbabee]

From a personal perspective - no one would date me for money anymore. They used to when I was earning $1200 a week. But I quit that job a while ago. So in my eyes, someone only dating me for sex would be bad.

[SmokyOne]

Money is worse. The other person benefits off your hard work, essentially reducing your struggle to slave labor.

at least sex can be mutually pleasurable and at worst stress relieving. As long as you don't catch an std and avoid having a kid you can ride it out. (pun intended) Until something/someone better comes along.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Both are super horrible and shallow once your looks or money fade both of them would immediately jump ships no neither aren't idea partners you have to find a lady or gentleman who actually likes you for you not because you are the beautiful person or the richest person.

[Berethor]

Money are not part of you, so gold diggers tend to be worse.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/GoldDigger

[Tiptoetamm]

Money someone why is with me for money fuck that I work hard for what I have and I'm not just going to let others determine how I spend it. I mean I don't want someone with me for sex but at least I get something out of that haha

[TransAm85]

They're both wrong and cause a person to have mental/emotional problems after having been used for both. I was used for sex and my husband was used for money in past relationships so we both struggle with communication.

[egarcia1360]

For money would definitely be worse, because at the end of the day you just have less money, whereas if it's just for sex at least you got sex out of it 😂

[Kaamraj]

Both are equally good or bad. A traditional relationship has always been an exchange between the woman's sexual and reproductive exclusivity and a man's resource exclusivity.

[Chris008976]

Being into me for money would be the worst. Sex would be much better, but still kind of empty if you don't even like each other otherwise.

[Kaneki05]

Neither if it's been agreed upon. Otherwise well lying is just all bad in a relationship.

[nirvowolf]

I only date people who are into me for me, or have shared fetishes period

[DonkeyDan]

I'm going to go with into me for my money, sex I don't mind lol

[t-8900]

Equally bad. Using someone is using someone and it's always horrible

[ImNoOne111]

As a boy, someone into me for money makes more sense. But someone into me for sex? Thats very alarming to me

[CuriousMufuxka]

Whoa thongs! I gotta say sex. At the very least if the guy's got money, he knows what he's in for. If it's just sex, there's gonna be a lot of fucking around..

[Harleigh90]

Both as toxic as eachother 🤣

[zagor]

The second one would be worse because that would mean they're delusional.

[RebeccaSJ]

If he's only in for the sex, at least I get plenty of sex out of it.

[OddBeMe]

I'm so tired of chicks getting with me only for my huge dingdong. I have a personality people.

[bigpauly]

If they’re only dating you to use you for anything it is equally bad in my opinion

[Jltakk]

Money EASILY. I can roll with sex, but I am not a bank.

[QT933]

I'd say it's worse if someone's only into you for your money

[Nopename]

I like Fuckbuddy because they are sincere, natural, do not expect benefits

[Cherry234]

They're both equally bad.

[Phoenix98]

They're both aoul equal to me.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

They are both equally bad

[Biya21]

both. because in both cases someone is using you.

[CrazyGirl2]

Yes, perfection. Amen! The academy award for succinct and perfect phasing in a dating or relationship question goes to… The envelope please…. … … OMG! @biya21 !!!

[Biya21]

@CrazyGirl2 please dont make fun of anyone.

[CrazyGirl2]

I’m NOT making fun of you or anyone else @biya21 I WAS NOT making fun of you! How could this even BE making fun? What fun did i make? Seriously, if i was making fun of you… HOW did i make fun of you! I LEGITIMATELY MEANT EVERY WORD! For some reason I struggled to fund just the right words to say what I intended so beautifully succinctly as you did! In the written English language one should aspire to conveying the information using as few words as possible. (A skill, I lack and envy in others). I thusly made my post in a humorous way, but it was in NO WAY rude, disrespectful, nor was it making fun of you! Perhaps if I would have said something blatantly untrue like “and the award for longest post ever…” maybe then you could make your claim that I was sarcastically “making fun” if you!
Gurrl, I literally admired your ability to communicate succinctly, and I gave you props for it! Yet rather than not live your life always assuming the worst motivation imaginable, and take it as it was meant which was complimentary, you assumed the absolute worst in me, and accused me of making fun of YOU? You know, if you were unsure of my motivation, you COULD have just asked me what I meant, you COULD have asked anyone who knows me if I am the type of person who would rudely insult someone who was just minding her own business and merely answered the same question I did…. But NO, you make a conscious decision to think the worst of me and reprimand me for my alleged sin!
Yet in-spite of ALL that I still believe you worded your answer beautifully succinctly, and I’m so close to quitting this damned platform where everyone is SO effin’ jaded you get shit for trying to compliment people!

[Tutchang_]

@CrazyGirl2 that's a lot of a paragraph. I feel ur sincerity tho

[llorando]

Someone only into you for your money is worse.

[WhitneySnow]

Both are equally bad

[flirtatiousgirl]

Voted c

[Vick2828]

Both

[Twalli]

Sex isn't finite

[insteadfew]

Both are BAD