I’m obsessed with someone who isn’t good for me how to get over them?

[Anonymous]

I have a problem I’m attached to someone who I can’t be with nor he is good for me.

[1stranger]

Change your thoughts.
Obsession is about things, behaviors, belongings, ideas. It's not about individuals.

You are a person who has grown yourself, trained yourself, had your own profession, developed your career, and owns property without the help of anyone until now.
You don't need someone else's love, words and thoughts to create yourself. There is no reason to make you dependent on them.
Change your thoughts.

[Asker]

Easier said then done. What should I do when those thoughts come.

[1stranger]

Believe me, it was not easy for me to say and do too.

These intense thoughts and overthinking about someone are things you don't want to want. You know that they harm you also it harms the other person.

Get down to the base.
What are the emotions and characteristics that lead you to this person?
What are the feelings and traits that make you overthink this person?

You probably don't have these traits or you were not made to feel these feelings in your childhood to you.

In result you start to overthink the people who gave you these.
Person tends to seek and find what own does not have.
Remedy, know yourself..
Know why you do what you do.
And keep in mind what you do is not your fault.

[1stranger]

Babe you get it? Ok?

[Asker]

Thank you

[1stranger]

😊
Don't forget to smile😊😘

[zagor]

Yeah stay away from that asshole Putin.