Do you think girls generally find it unattractive/attractive for a guy to acknowledge that a girl is mentally stronger than he is?

[Rab1901]

I'm basically wondering how you honestly feel about this kinda honesty. Does it more show that he's open and humble or does it more show that he's weak and unfit to be with a lady or something else? Feel free to talk about how you feel about this situation.

Ex.

Girl: They judged me and said crap to me but I didn't really mind it.
Guy: Oh it's great that you're unphased. I feel like I'm not quite as strong as you are, and those things would bother me, but I'm working on becoming stronger.

Very Unattractive

Unattractive

Neutral

Attractive

Very Attractive

[Sixgunsound]

It’s been my observation that at least in the western world, it is completely and utterly unacceptable for men to have any mental health issues like that, while we are simultaneously required to tolerate women who live like Brittany Spears or Miranda Lambert. Craziness is now cute, with the accompanying mental breakdowns, a decade plus ‘ho phase’, and more. Nothing to see here. Put up with and pay for it or you’re misogynist and don’t deserve a family, career or life.

[HighValue]

So you think it is "stronger" to be a coward and let people insult you and get away with it? Seriously?

[Rab1901]

She said she didn't mind it. Do you recommend she retaliate by doing something out of revenge? How do you think a strong person would've taken control of such a situation?

[Jamie05rhs]

@HighValue is it stronger to slap them like Will Smith?

[HighValue]

@Jamie05rhs Will Smith is not an example of a strong person. He lets others have sex with his wife. He is a poor excuse for a man.

[Jammaa]

So what is a stronger way to react then?

[Jamie05rhs]

@HighValue I never said he was.

[Rab1901]

@Jammaa I'm curious too. Please do tell @HighValue

[CurlyGirl42]

It is great to acknowledge he is affected by/not so strong in certain sitations, but extrapolating that to being overall mentally weaker could be dramatic. People normally have weaker and stronger sides, that does not mean one is weak in general.