Men never seem to want to date me or see my value no matter how attractive and kind of a person I have become. How can I be more amazing?

[Anonymous]

[AZandrea]

You dont need a lover to be happy... Be happy first and a lover will follow along because everybody loves being around fun and happy people who enjoy their lives.

Take YOURSELF out on dates... go with friends if you want

Wear what you like, eat what you like, say whatever you like to say, express yourself freely... Let people know the real you... you don't want to get into a relationship pretending to be someone you are not...

[Secret6620]

Just continue being yourself. The right guy will come along when you are least expecting it.

[Asker]

I keep getting hurt. Maybe I’m worthless.

[Guy__]

If you're worthless then everyone is worthless. I get the worthlessness thoughts too at times, I know they're false. Did none of the guys have enough courage to say what's wrong? Then why are they even attractive for you if they have no courage? Or there isn't anything wrong at all? It probably just so happened by accident, you're most definitely valuable.

[Rizwan_khan]

Believe me for just sake of dating or want someone's love. never ever change yourself. be you always if you are kind nature person then you have the rarest thing cuz in this era kind is expensive thing which every body can't afford it.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Maybe you should stop trying to please guys so much, and start being more selfish.

The way i see it is, if you are not having any luck with what you're doing? Change the narrative.

[Asker]

I see these guys taking women out on dates but treat me like I’m a loser no one wants.

[TommyMountainFigure]

My point exactly. Put yourself first for a change and maybe you will get a guy's attention that way.

[Asker]

I do all of those things though.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You said you do those things because you think guys want you to do them.. What I'm advocating is, you should stop doing things for guys and start doing things you want to do, unless of course they are the same.

[one1wild00]

Stop trying so hard and just be. I usually find dates 5 minutes after I give up on finding a date again and just start trying to have fun in my own way.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Maybe you're so gorgeous & beautiful that guys think you're out of their league... hmm.

[Asker]

Well recently guys seem indifferent that I talk to and do the bare minimum

[Sam_The_Savage]

PM me

[Xtendable]

Don’t change yourself to seek mens approval. You will always disappoint someone. The fickle and varied nature of men. Just be the best ‘you’ for your own sake

[Luckycharms12]

You see your self value if guys don't that's there loss. Someone will

[elizamichale1]

Be more friendly n open

[In_Trance]

Choose different guys

[Asker]

I am only attracted to the hot guys at the gym who also have good things going for them like myself, but they want really stupid bimbo types.

[In_Trance]

Read that back to yourself and you'll see your issue