Why is it so hard to get attention from men when i’m attractive?

[Anonymous]

i know i’m pretty but like i get no dms on facebook or instagram. men don’t approach men in public at all and if i friend a guy i find attractive on facebook 80% of the time they reject my request! what’s wrong with me or what i’m doing or what’s wrong with men?

[ThrillSeeker01]

Sometimes guys are worried they'll offend a girl if he is too forward.

[Anonymous]

Probably afraid of being called a creep or intimidated by your looks or thinking you’re a catfish on their

[Asker]

All of them? I can’t reach out myself as a woman that genuinely looks so insanely desperate it’s embarrassing!

[Opinion Owner]

Not if you flirt a little to try and get their attention

[riverrat3]

If you are truly that pretty they must think it a scam

[Tim2nice]

Why don’t you make the first move?

[Asker]

as a woman making the first move is desperate and manly. Even if they don’t say it, it makes men lose respect for you subconsciously since you’re pursuing them. You even lose respect amongst other women, ask any woman and they’d say if they’re friend approached or dmed a man it’s embarrassing. As a woman romantic rejection is much worse because it proves you are undesirable snd unfeminine. As a whole making the first move is unladylike and a good way to get looked down in by most people around you even if they and you don’t realize it.

[Tim2nice]

No. It’s not. Some men are shy and would never make a move. I was one of them and missed out on many girls who liked me because I had no confidence to ask them out. Do away with stereotyping and ask him out. You have nothing to lose anyway

[Date_a_Snob]

ask him not. It is 2023.

[Asker]

Every woman I’ve ever spoken too knows that texting or messaging first looks desperate and dumb. Even if I did I’d be a laughing stock if I told anyone. It’s embarrassing and manly.

[jahaims]

It's takes more than being attractive