I’m pretty and I get a lot of male attention but only from guys I find unattractive?

[Anonymous]

I get a lot of attention from men but only the ones who are the opposite of my type / men I find unattractive. What does this mean and what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Most likely it means your image of yourself doesn’t match up w reality. If you’re that pretty as you say you are you’d attract a higher caliber man look wise. Even if you were really pretty you’d still attract ugly me. But from what I’m reading between the lines here you’re not attracting men you’re attracted to. It has nothing to do w your personality really, not from the start. It’s all about your looks. I mean what does anyone really know about strangers when approaching them other than their looks? Nothing really. It’s usually looks that pulls the men in to want to get to know you better. If you have a bad personality chances are they’ll bounce, maybe even smash then leave. But from your question they’re not even approaching so you’re not even getting a chance to show them your personality. Which again brings up the question. Is your view of yourself a delusion compared to reality.

[Asker]

slit your wrists you don’t deserve superb opinion gag is dumb asf

[Sabobama]

That's harsh damn

[DatBrooklynGuy]

From what I've noticed over the years are that usually really pretty woman rarely get approached by guys at all.. if you say only unattractive guys do then those are just the ones who are bold and have nothing to lose becos we're used to being rejected.

[Jamie05rhs]

I'll tell you a little secret: They're probably just unattractive because they're single. They don't feel like they have a reason. They're not ugly; they're just not trying. Get to know these guys a little bit. If you find out that you like someone (as a person), and you give him a chance, he will improve himself to impress you.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Luméa]

Maybe you don't show the "real you" and act more shy around men you find attractive, but you act more relaxed with a man you don't find attractive and everything goes well, that's why you get a lot of attention from them, cause you are relaxed finee

[Monalisa77]

This is what i think too

[Luméa]

Great

[thatshydork]

In my experience with attracting the ‘nerd’ type, they’re usually more interested in personality/are less likely to openly approach girls they don’t know.

[musclesimp]

It means you should work harder. Hard men want hard twerking women.

@d_bone_steak's children working hard on the opium farm.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Gotta make those fucking kids work!

... because I'm not going to work!

[musclesimp]

@D_Bone_Steak Behold! For it is written in the Good Book, "And the woman said unto him, What wilt thou give me, that thou mayest come in unto me? And he answered, Ask me never so much dowry and gift, and I will give according as ye shall say unto me: but give me the damsel to wife." (Genesis 34:11-12)

Thus sayeth the Lord Almighty, "PAWGs and MILFs shall not enter my kingdom unless they have given unto me their coom jars and bent over to receive my holy seed!" For I am a just God, and I demand repentance from these harlots!

[TiaNour]

That pic is so messed up 😭

[Fireguy17]

probably change your attitude, and work on your personality so that the "pretty" boys might find you attractive.
It seems that only the men that you find unattractive are willing to put up with you.

[spartan55]

It means you likely aren't as good looking as you think you are.

[JoshMa]

Fax bro

[Asker]

definitely not that if i’m getting a lot of male attention in pretty the fact that men approach me at all is enough to prove that. trust i’ve gotten incel forum opinions and never left with lower than a 8/10

[spartan55]

,
And humility 0/10. So because you are getting plenty if attention from guys proves your point? Well, actually it doesn't, but nonetheless.

[Asker]

why would i lie and say i’m not attractive? Why am i such egotistical unhumble person for knowing i’m pretty? I’m not going to fake low self esteem

[spartan55]

You don't have to say anything, good or bad. No one needs to point out how hot they think they are. Most of us can see that for ourselves. It comes off as insecure, immature and bragging.

[Asker]

Looks are important factor in posts like this because you can’t see me and i’m not going to show my face. In the post i’m not going to say guys i’m so hot but if you say it’s because you’re ugly im going to have to clarify im attractive enough for it not to be a issue with looks. Did you just want me to accept something untrue without clarifying to revive better and more accurate advice to my situation?

[Asker]

receive*

[Tomisworthless]

Intel’s over rate woman all the time because they’re sexless. You’re probably a 5.5-6.5

[EmmaMary]

Just how many more times are you going to post this question?

[Asker]

6 million (seriously I’ve only posted this question once which was this post maybe someone else?)

[RavVid]

it might be the guys you like are liked by most girls and those guys can sit back

[Asker]

i like nerds

[RavVid]

Hmmmh. There should only be short queues in that case :)

[Tomisworthless]

Hot nerds. Those are difficult to come by, good looking nerd who has social skills. It’s like finding a woman whose hot sane and single

[RavVid]

@Tomisworthless And unfailingly faithful?

[Staximus]

Nerds are bitch boys with no balls and are too scared to approach a girl. Good luck with the nerds.

[RedInnocent68]

Approach ones you find attractive. You’ll also start to understand yourself more, if, for example, you always go for taken ones, as some suggested…

[Asker]

i like nerds

[RedInnocent68]

Yeah, you have to approach them… Introverts that are least likely to approach you. Just go slow and engage them through their interests or they can spook easily.

[TheSpaceGnome]

As a nerd, I can confirm, we do not approach, we let the woman approach.

[sheikalana]

Same. You can ask any attractive woman we never get approached by handsome guys. Don’t worry you’re not alone.

[killergoku999]

It's life as it is. Be patient, and continue to find your soul mate.

[Tomisworthless]

It means you’re pretty and draw a lot of attention. Attractive men don’t approach reject messes with their ego, you have to go up to the guys you like

[LiamJHayden]

Either your personality or you are not as "all that" as you imagine yourself to be.

[Sabobama]

It means that you are attractive because you get guys, just wait and you'll get a good looking one. You just gotta put yourself out there ya know

[Anonymous]

You have to change something. Maybe its where gou hang out or what you wear.

[Andy1970guy]

Then it's up to you to make the first move on guys that you find attractive.

[dolemite58]

Be open to dating guys that aren't ur exact type sometimes

[Asker]

i like nerds it shouldn’t be this hard

[spartan55]

@dolemite58
Lol... OP just completely ignored this opinion... can't imagine what the problem is.

[Asker]

@spartan55 the only men who aren’t my type are athletes and more thug like men. Everyone knows those types are usually players I don’t think expanding my options to them would help me at all… Men always say women should choose better non player men and that’s exactly what i look for, non players, kind, loyal, more introverted men. Im not just going to start accepting assholes?

[spartan55]

@asker
Well your screening for 'players' sucks tbh. Because they are 'athletes' and 'thug types' means they are players? EVERYONE knows that? Uh... no? So if they are introverted they can't be a player? Seriously?
None of your criteria have anything to do with the chances of a guy being a player or not.

[Asker]

@spartan55 maybe I am too picky? i’m starting to think that because there are cute athletic guys i’ve crossed out because u assumed we wouldn’t be a match off the bat.

[Asker]

I***

[spartan55]

@Asker
You mean you assume?

[Asker]

@spartan55 yes that’s why I corrected and said I. dude why do you still have an attitude I’m saying you might be right☹️

[spartan55]

I don't, I'm clarifying what you said. I missed your correction.

[FrankAu]

sorta funny & ironic, maybe try not to look too attractive LOL

[postaldudePL123]

Try approaching the guys of your choice by yourself.

[Asker]

scary

[postaldudePL123]

Then just keep asking such questions on forums and satisfy yourself.

[Anonymous]

U keep away from them 😂like I keep away from ugly girls

[Opinion Owner]

Yes like do something or be stuck with someone I don't even like hahah

[Avicenna]

Here's the thing- that is totally normal.

[Danny_dan92]

We want what we cannot have

[KrakenAttackin]

Such a huge cross to bare.

[Asker]

i know right

[kareka]

So u dont get attention from ur type?

[Asker]

nope

[kareka]

U can use guys not ur type untill u find ur type

[Asker]

I don’t want to use men that’s cruel

[kareka]

So what is the type u like?

[Asker]

nerds

[kareka]

Omg this type dont like girls 😂😂😂😂😂

[DreamLife7]

Bc ur unattractive

[Asker]

You’re a cunt and I hope you slit ur wrists

[DreamLife7]

@asker you'll still be ugly regardless 🤣

[Anonymous]

Not this again🥲

[Anonymous]

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