Would you date or talk to a guy like this?

[Anonymous]

If he said "I wouldn't talk to you, if you weren't good-looking", which is extremely offensive, because it assumes that someone has no personality.
The person also seems to think that looks is number 1 in a relationship and is constantly looking at women.
Isn't this person very shallow?
Why would any girl want to be with a guy that shallow, who treats women like objects?

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+1 y

Obviously physical attraction is important in a relationship, but personality is also important.
In my opinion, it is shallow to date someone just because of their looks..

[LazyProphet]

It kinda depends on how he said it and the context, but really he's just telling the truth lol, nobody would date somebody they don't find sexually attractive or good looking. Ultimately I think he was trying to compliment you, saying you're good looking.

[HighValue]

How many 300 + pound guys have you started a conversation with?
How many amputees?

If looks didn't matter you would be talking with them just as much as others. You can't magically know someone's personality before you even decide to talk to them. And looks do matter. Someone needs to be at least a 5 in your attraction to them to be a possible match. Be realistic.

[HawkPerception]

Accurate

[Nidal_AA]

I think there is a chance he was trying to compliment you but he just picked the wrong words...
But if not, then no... Ur right he dosent deserve you

[Iron_Man]

Why are you talking about me talking garbage twisting and turning my words around from private message. Just for that I’m not gonna talk to you tonight

[Asker]

Who is talking about you?

[Iron_Man]

You….

[Iron_Man]

You know I always know your writing style and your complaints when you’re angry

[Asker]

This is a general question..

[Asker]

Well, it is shallow and offensive...

[Iron_Man]

I they’re not good looking I’ll talk to them as a friend if you’re very beautiful then I’ll be interested in something else

[Iron_Man]

If..,

[Iron_Man]

And what’s wrong with having a Rolex watch my father had one so I wanted one and you’re always talking about dressing up really fancy so aren’t you like that yourself

[Iron_Man]

But course it’s about the personality and the person that you are not the clothes you wear or the jewelry

[Iron_Man]

Yes you’re very beautiful

[Asker]

You said if they aren't good-looking you wouldn't take to them, like the Carol girl

[Iron_Man]

No you misunderstood because I also talk to her and she’s not very attractive

[Asker]

Anyway people are reading this...

[Iron_Man]

Yes I know and liking it

[Asker]

This has turned into a show...

[Iron_Man]

Lol I know

[TommyMountainFigure]

I remember seeing a movie where the quote was

''Assumption is the mother of all fukups'

I think that describes his views to a tee.

[Rizwan_khan]

Basically this is question for girls but i can give my opinion do yes look matter but personality matter most then look matter. If you can't talk nicely to anyone so what do you do with look.

[In_Trance]

This is freaking weird