Yeah so I hardly get any attention at all from the women in my own country since they are more attracted to other men. I’m not mad at them necessarily, because it is just their preference.
But regardless what I’ve noticed is that amongst other women from other countries, I seem to actually be a more sought-after option.
I usually get compliments from foreign women about how attractive I look, but I never get them from American women.
Now maybe American women also find me equally as attractive (I doubt it as American beauty standards are probably much different), but they aren’t as upfront about it.
That is absolutely a possibility.
But I think what I’ve been noticing is that women from other countries tend to be a lot more upfront and direct.
Whereas in American culture, even when a woman feels attraction towards a guy, she isn’t necessarily saying it directly and the guy is sort of just expected to know right away.
And I guess that is what frustrates me as an autistic man. The fact that women won’t just say what they feel. The fact that they expect us to just figure it out.
Because as an autistic man, I’m a very black and white person. I’m terrible at reading other people and knowing what they are thinking. Hell, I often can’t even tell when people are being SARCASTIC!
So with me just say how you feel and leave it at that. Don’t waste my time or I’ll quickly lose my interest and become very annoyed.
But of course people can’t tell I’m autistic just by looking at me. After all I do have a more mild form.
So I appreciate that foreign women are more direct. In their culture they seem to want to let the man know they’re interested and have them feel valued/desired straight away.
And of course as an autistic man, since I’m very bad at reading the signs of when a girl is interested, it gives me a sigh of relief how foreign girls will just tell you straight away.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve mistakenly thought a girl was interested, later to be rejected.
But regardless what I’ve noticed is that amongst other women from other countries, I seem to actually be a more sought-after option.
I usually get compliments from foreign women about how attractive I look, but I never get them from American women.
Now maybe American women also find me equally as attractive (I doubt it as American beauty standards are probably much different), but they aren’t as upfront about it.
That is absolutely a possibility.
But I think what I’ve been noticing is that women from other countries tend to be a lot more upfront and direct.
Whereas in American culture, even when a woman feels attraction towards a guy, she isn’t necessarily saying it directly and the guy is sort of just expected to know right away.
And I guess that is what frustrates me as an autistic man. The fact that women won’t just say what they feel. The fact that they expect us to just figure it out.
Because as an autistic man, I’m a very black and white person. I’m terrible at reading other people and knowing what they are thinking. Hell, I often can’t even tell when people are being SARCASTIC!
So with me just say how you feel and leave it at that. Don’t waste my time or I’ll quickly lose my interest and become very annoyed.
But of course people can’t tell I’m autistic just by looking at me. After all I do have a more mild form.
So I appreciate that foreign women are more direct. In their culture they seem to want to let the man know they’re interested and have them feel valued/desired straight away.
And of course as an autistic man, since I’m very bad at reading the signs of when a girl is interested, it gives me a sigh of relief how foreign girls will just tell you straight away.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve mistakenly thought a girl was interested, later to be rejected.
