But regardless what I’ve noticed is that amongst other women from other countries, I seem to actually be a more sought-after option.
I usually get compliments from foreign women about how attractive I look, but I never get them from American women.
Now maybe American women also find me equally as attractive (I doubt it as American beauty standards are probably much different), but they aren’t as upfront about it.
That is absolutely a possibility.
But I think what I’ve been noticing is that women from other countries tend to be a lot more upfront and direct.
Whereas in American culture, even when a woman feels attraction towards a guy, she isn’t necessarily saying it directly and the guy is sort of just expected to know right away.
And I guess that is what frustrates me as an autistic man. The fact that women won’t just say what they feel. The fact that they expect us to just figure it out.
Because as an autistic man, I’m a very black and white person. I’m terrible at reading other people and knowing what they are thinking. Hell, I often can’t even tell when people are being SARCASTIC!
So with me just say how you feel and leave it at that. Don’t waste my time or I’ll quickly lose my interest and become very annoyed.
But of course people can’t tell I’m autistic just by looking at me. After all I do have a more mild form.
So I appreciate that foreign women are more direct. In their culture they seem to want to let the man know they’re interested and have them feel valued/desired straight away.
And of course as an autistic man, since I’m very bad at reading the signs of when a girl is interested, it gives me a sigh of relief how foreign girls will just tell you straight away.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve mistakenly thought a girl was interested, later to be rejected.
Yeah. What I’ve noticed in particular with Latin girls is they find men with white skin and light hair and light eyes attractive because it seems we look as exotic to them as they look to us. When you live in a country or region where nearly everyone has dark hair and eyes and olive skin something a little unique can be attractive. Whether in the US or south of the border I have found many latin girls who are very attracted to me, and have said as much where as most white girls never paid me much mind on looks alone. I am of only average looks.
Not to mention latin girls seem to take much better care of their men then women who have no latin American or hispanic cultural as it seems to be a cultural issue.
That’s what I’m saying. But for some reason that other user accussed me of “exploiting” these women
I don’t agree with her.
Do you even understand what the f*ck she’s talking about?
I think she’s saying men who date foreign women are looking to basically take advantage of their beauty due to their poverty.