How can I get my parent's permission to go on a trip with my boyfriend (me 19 and my boyfriend 29)?

[Anonymous]

I'm Vietnamese, my boyfriend is from Singapore. We met online so this September, he will fly to VN and we will have a trip to Da Nang but i don't know how to ask my parents. Pls help !!!

[Vikkrram]

If your parents know about your boyfriend then it's ok you have to just tell them that you wanna go a trip wid him and you both be in ur limits..

And if they don't then you have to lie or may cancel your plan.

[Asker]

they dont know about us :>>

[Vikkrram]

Then if you want to know then you have to lie from them, but see ur boyfriend is 29 that means... he is settled he is earning a good income , i think your parents would allow you to date and maybe you both can get Married...

[Asker]

i think my parent expect me to marry someone in the same city tho

[Vikkrram]

Who knows maybe your parents just want a decent guy and may like ur boyfriend

[Asker]

aghhh, i want to meet him in person then we will decide to commit to the relationship. If everything was good I will introduce him to my parent.

[Vikkrram]

Ohh that's the case.. you haven't met him in person then go ahead.. best of luck...

[Asker]

thanks <333

[Iron_Man]

They won’t let you as long as you’re living under There roof

[Asker]

that makes sense ;))))

[melanieeeB]

I wouldn't allow you that eiter!! Stay home girl

[melanieeeB]

And stay alive lol

[Asker]

damn

[Asker]

i mean if 1 of us kills each other, probably gonna be me lol

[melanieeeB]

Sure haha yeah no!
If you would be my daughter and wanted to go on a trip, with your 10 year older boyfriend (while you're just sweet 19!!) that you just met 8 months prior on the internet? Hell no! Your ass would stay home and the internet would be off.

[Asker]

i mean if i was the parents, yeah probably I gonna say no ;))))

[Anonymous]

sounds pretty suspect...

[Asker]

yeah its does

[yourdrug98]

Is it supposed to be your first meeting?

[Asker]

yes it is

[Asker]

but we will meet in my city in a few days and have a trip to another city

[yourdrug98]

That's cool but I think better not to hide anything from your parents. I don't mean to scare you but you met this guy online so you don't know what is awaiting you