When guys fuck up?

[LeoLover75]

Why is it that when guys fuck up or get caught lying and they get confronted about it, they turn it around on us and get angry with us like we did something wrong?

[AviatorTom]

Come on, you girls do that too. Just the other day, my SO broke a glass and then blamed me for not cleaning it up.

[ImNoOne111]

Its not a guy thing. Girls do that too. And its like any other situation where people lie to avoid the consequences or lighten them for themselves

[SlothySlob]

No offence, but everybody does that. It's easier to blame someone else, than yourself.

[Still-alive]

girls do that shit too lol. this isn't a gender issue

[LeoLover75]

Your probably right. So then let me ask why do people do this? Cuz honestly I have never done this. I would just panic that I was busted and probly start crying. But my example is a female was texting my ex (when we were still together) very inappropriate things and he was texting back also inappropriately. He left his phone unlocked and I read them. So when I confronted him he gets defensive and angry and says well why were you looking at my phone anyway. You wouldn’t have seen it if you weren’t snooping.

[Still-alive]

Its narcissism basically. Like @SnakeBoop says its a common manipulation tactic among their types

[Still-alive]

And i also agree you definitely shouldn’t snoop around either

[chulo1992]

Sounds like something young boys do. If I fuck up, I am man enough to admit it... plain and simple

[Cowboy6666]

Maybe he thinks you didn't satisfy him sexually so he is blaming you

[SnakeBoop]

its a manipulation tactic

[TommyMountainFigure]

That is called blame transferral.

[Adam-94]

No they don’t