Seriously. Do girls like good boys or bad boys?

[Anonymous]

It's a conundrum.

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Well why wen a good girl has a good boy does she let a bad boy interfere.

[zeitgeist057]

Much like men, women want their cake and to eat it too.

They want a strong man, who stands up for what he believes in, will stand up for her, who lives life by his own strong sense of purpose and morals, stands out as an unique individual. A man who has fun with life, who lives in the moment, and keeps her excited and stimulated with mystery.

But also they want a man who will be compassionate and flexible, especially to her specific wants and needs, and put her before himself. Who doesn't get in trouble or stick his neck out too far and put any shame on her for embarrassment. Who is serious about life and thinks of the future, isn't so impulsive as to be recklessly endangering her or himself.

Do you see the hypocrisy? The way you can't really be both ends of the spectrum? How can you be carefree and serious? Direct and bold, yet gentle and demure? As I mentioned, it's the same issue for women and men, with men wanting an exciting woman who stands out and attracts them, but at the same time is just for them and not so ambitious to leave them behind.

Sure, a person can have all of or lots of these traits a lot of the time. But most people don't, no one is perfect.

[dolemite89]

girls like guys that treat them like crap until they hit the wall looks wise then they’ll go foe
the nice guy they’re not really attracted to

[Asker]

But there are good lookin good boys who may at one time once or another been bad boys. So all I'm tryin to figure out is what attracts girls to doods who r gonna eff em over.

[WonderBell99]

Not everyone likes the same thing.

I used to prefer bad boys when I was younger, (I was an avid YA reader, and most of the YA novels are filled with bad boys and good girls) but now I prefer good guys. Bad boys suck. They can go to hell.

As women get older and mature, they will come to terms with the reality and start accepting the fact that bad boys NEVER change for anyone and bring nothing but trouble. Good guys are the ones who are boyfriend/husband material. They treat you with respect, shower you with love, give amazing hugs and provide you with emotional support. That’s the kind of man i want.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Some girls like bad boys and some girls like good boys
Not everyone likes the same thing

[whereismyjohnny]

Good boys all the way.

[akrs_10]

I just want a boy alive

[CloudMassacre]

Medium boys

[In_Trance]

both

[Asker]

Haha

[Iron_Man]

Good guys

[Anonymous]

Good guys always win