I said to him when you see me in person you're gonna fall in love with me. What would you guys think when you heard something like that?

[Anonymous]

We met online and we've been chatting almost 1.5 years. We saw each other pics and he told me that Im pretty. But honestly Im so much prettier in person and guys always say that to me. After he was ignoring me for a month I told him you're gonna fall in love with me when you see me in person. What would he think? What would you guys think?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Wait, he ignored you after you said that? Or you said that to him after he ignored you? Sorry, I’m a bit tired and might’ve misunderstood.


But, if a guy said that to me, I’d take it as a good thing kinda, it just depends on the context of the conversation. It might sound a bit cocky or narcissistic to some people. But, another thing I would add is that, someone’s looks don’t make me fall in love with someone, that would be lust… Personality is usually what makes someone fall in love with another.

[Asker]

I said that after he was ignoring me for a month. I agree with you personality is more important when it comes to love. by the way thanks for answering 😊

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Gotcha! You’re welcome.
I think it’s good to have that confidence. If you are confident that you look good and you have a good personality, then it’s a great possibility that someone will fall in love with you when they meet in person, that is, if you’ve talked/dated online for a while 😉 Love takes a while to develop for most people.

[WhitneySnow]

He’d think you were being arrogant. But I mean if you guys already have feelings for each other then maybe he will.

[HighlyVolatile]

I'd think it's funny and would take it as a challenge. "Still haven't fallen in love with you yet. Need to step things up!" I try not to be too mischievous with that but I'm going to have my fun with it.

[Asker]

Thanks for answering. I even told him if you dont fall in love with me just tell me but Im never forget my words you're gonna fall in love with me. Yeah I like challenging myself and others.

[kinggeorge007]

If it was said in a middle of a conversation I'll find it cool. But as an ice breaker after a silence, I don't think so.

[OlderAndWiser]

Sounds like an arrogant diva talking.

[Asker]

Im not an arrogant but okay 😊

[crossdressingrihno]

It does come off that way if I'm being honest not saying that you are arrogant just that it comes off as arrogant

[Asker]

@crossdressingrihno Yeah its understandable because when I read again I realized that it comes off like that by the way thanks for answering 😊

[Avicenna]

Id be like, wow, she’s confident and motivated. I’d see it as a positive

[Asker]

Thanks for answering 😊

[Truthatanycost]

I'd notice that she wasn't saying 'when you get to know my personality you will fall in love'

[spartan55]

I would think "yeah okay" and you were a bit too full of yourself, which is a turn off.

[Pudsmucker]

I was a pen pal with my wife for several years. She flew out and we met for the first time. We are still together after 44 years.

[AlwaysBelieving]

Oh snaps. That's so cool

[one1wild00]

It red flags for me thinking you might be high maintenance.

[Asker]

Why is this a red flag? 😊

[one1wild00]

Being that sure of yourself to yourself is great, BUT, being that sure of yourself where he is concerned before the in person meeting screams of high maintenance and possible over estimation of the other persons qualities.

[Asker]

Yeah I get it where are you coming from. Thanks for answering 😊

[Shy_Steve]

I would think She would be right if I already liked her Profile pic.

[Anonymous]

Conceded females are usually not very attractive personality wise

[Squaresquirrel]

This sounds like the girl thinks she's in a movie.

[exitseven]

I would be intrigued.

[IsoUser]

I wouldn't know because I have never saw you.

[Asker]

Oh why? You wouldn't meet me if you were him?

[IsoUser]

I couldn't honestly say because I have never met You

[AlwaysBelieving]

For me, I'd be cautious.

[OddBeMe]

Serisouly setting up high expectations.