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Do you leave on the first red flag or give them another chance?

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  • ShyGuy303
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    Very much depends on the flag ask the men in your life explaining the specific flag and you’ll see how obvious it is from the male perspective if you should leave that guy alone or not I say that cause sometimes it’s hard to see the obvious things about the opposite gender like some girls may say a guy who comments on hella girls post is a red flag but to a guy that’s not necessarily true he’s obviously just shooting his shot until something works doesn’t mean he’s a bad guy or a good guy just means he’s looking for a connection and that’s more of a yellow flag than anything lol

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  • TonyV
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    Hmm, I think we need to start calling somethings yellow flags lol.

    Like what's the least serious thing we can call a redflag? Like if she's got kids thats something to take note of but not a hard no, just a small redflag, but if she's got kids but now is holding off on sex till it's really serious that's a deal breaker.
    If she's blatantly racist that's a redflag deal breaker immediately.

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  • NovaCourier
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    It depends on what that red flag is. A minor red flag, so something that may have been a one off mistake or slight error of judgement, I'm willing to overlook unless they don't stop or they get worse. Major red flags, like lying, evidence of cheating in past relationships, rudeness or being insensitive, etc, I'd go faster than sh*t sliding off a shovel...

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  • Jamie05rhs
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    I usually wait for 2 or 3. In the beginning, I'm not even dating them yet, so the stakes are pretty low. I can be more open minded at that stage in the game.

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  • DWornock
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    If repeatedly, you are rejecting men because of red flags, you need to start giving men more chances. However, if it is an occasional red flag, trust your intuition.

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  • TallAnon
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    I am observant, as long as I don't need to make a commitment, I will see if it's redeemable. Often it is not. If I am forced a decision, my answer will always be to discard the connection entirely.

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  • Bklynbadboy12
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    That depends on what that redflag was cause let's face some are leave nor while you still can and some are okay I see I'm gonna have to watch her and see where this goes. You feel me

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  • kinggeorge007
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    Will definitely give it another chance except for lying and cheating.

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  • Hispanic-Cool-Guy
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    Major red flags then I would end it right there. Petty red flags, then no big deal. Those can be fixed mostly.

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  • Shamalien
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    never met a woman in person in whom I did not see red flags within the hour.

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  • ImNoOne111
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    Red flags are not warnings. They are red for a reason

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  • Joshua0213
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    Who is there to date then? That takes out almost every women

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  • Gangactivities911
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    Women all def leave on the first red flag no matter how minor but men generally do not.

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    With your rack, I'd give you a least one more chance. ;)

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  • HawkPerception
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    Depends on the severity of the red flag.

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  • Citizenkirk
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    Give them another chance.

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  • exitseven
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    it depends on the flag.

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  • Mark987
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    depends what happened?

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  • driven159
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    gone the red flags just get worse

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  • Cowboy6666
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    Depends upon on what thing She did

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  • TrillXHippy
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    First red flag

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