If a man can't get a woman, should he try dating gay men even if he isn't normally attracted to men?

[Kangarus]

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Lmao, he should self evaluate. Ask around for others intake on him. When got a good amount of feedback fix what needs to be fixed. Turning gay is the dumbest solution i have ever heard lmao.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

No...

Not unless you're attracted to the men.

Just be single.

[EnglishEuropean]

You say not "normally" attracted to men. That suggests he might be attracted to men under certain circumstances, which would make him bisexual. In which case, maybe he should.

[RobT312]

Only if you are attracted to dudes. If it were me and I felt bi curious, sure I’d do it

[PrettyPriya]

Quick question... why would you date a gender you are not attracted to? This makes no sense at all. What kind of relationship would that be realistically?

[Kangarus]

I have been thinking of dating men because all the good women are either taken, lesbian or simply too far away for any dating to be realistic for me. Failing that, I am thinking of transitioning from male to female. I was attracted to both men and women as a teen physically speaking, though I was sexually assaulted by male students and am trying to get over that. I just would feel more desirable and powerful as a gay man or a bi trans woman than as a straight man.

[WonderBell99]

No, of course not. You should never date someone you are not attracted to. It's not fair to the person you're dating.

[CloudMassacre]

You should date people you feel attracted to

[rebeccadn]

Dumbest thing I've heard

[Guy13]

Yikes…

[Guy13]

Is that even possible? Maybe you need a wingman when you go out chasing women? Think you are gay?

[Kangarus]

I could be bi-curious at least, I don't approach women in general, I don't get out that much to those kind of parties. I'd feel safer chasing gay men than women in the West, given the feminism and all that. Fortunately prostitution is legal in the state of Victoria where I live, so I've been getting by off of that, but I feel like settling down at some point in future. I'm thinking of dating gay men because while I'm attracted to women, I'm curious about gay men.

[Guy13]

It’s not uncommon in the USA. Even amongst my guy group. There’s been experimentation… “best blow job I ever had” so a friend said to me…”You keep your mouth off my beer and your hands off my nachos” was my response 🙃

[boggboss]

At that point why

[KrakenAttackin]

Idiot.

[Anonymous]

Not if he’s not gay