Is it gay to find a man attractive?

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I met a dude so hot i couldnt even find my balls to say anything to him We had casual eye contact for like 2 seconds in my opinion this isn't gay its just being amazed such a perfect specimen exists

Effably · Accepted Answer

There is a difference between being tongue tied due to how hot a guy is and appreciating that yeah, that dude looks good.

But you know, if the answer to "Would you have kissed/etc etc" him if you had the chance and he wanted to is a no, then nah. If it is a yes? Congrats on being open about your sexuality I suppose.

Ευδεμονια · Accepted Answer

I think it’s perfectly normal to find a good looking man attractive. This doesn’t mean you’re gay or you’re sexually attracted to him! It’s like finding Chris Hemsworth in front of me, I’d say he’s a very good looking man, despite being me heterosexual.

YollyM · Accepted Answer

No it's not gay.
You can find someone to be attractive because you can clearly tell that they mean the popular criteria of beauty.

However that doesn't mean that you personally find them attractive or magnetic to you in a more deeper level if that makes sense.

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Ever see men put on make up like women and do it good, they can become extremely attractive to even many other men, but doesn't mean straight guys want them.

JDavid25 · Answer

Nah, it's pretty normal we all find people of the same sex attractive.. We are just not attracted to them.. I remember when I saw a guy who looked like a legit Calvin Klein model and I was kinda speechless.. A few people have said the same about me.

Jayjay1234567890 · Answer

I gues its the way you think it, if its stating a fact. NO but if you feel like you get attracted to them. Then YES ( check your testosterone levels, food might be the problem if thats the case )

ChrisBlue2120 · Answer

It's flirting with gay, lol. I'm competitive and I can recognize if another guy is better looking than me, but I don't generally admire him, I want to beat him somehow.

RobT312 · Answer

Naw, nothing wrong admitting a guy is attractive. Wanting to or having sex with him is another story.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

It’s only gay if you want to fuck/date him.  but it’s not gay to simply acknowledge that someone is a good looking dude

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

Thats the difference between "fuck he's so hot" and "fuck he's so hot, I want to ~do things~ to that body" yknow

1GoldTwins · Answer

No, but it's gay to want to you knowwwwwwwwwwwwww fuck that man!

Guy13 · Answer

I don't think so BUT it is gay if you act on it...

fonduegirl · Answer

Did you get hard or did your heart sing? If not, it's nothing. You're straight.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

I get infatuated to guys, but quite rarely, more rarely than to lasses. I told this to a lass, and She said that She doesn’t think I’m bisexual.

kao118 · Answer

You might be bisexual, in which case, WELCOME TO TH BANDWAGON :D

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

If it’s from an objective perspective, then no. But if you’re actually attracted, then eat a effing salad (respectfully)

Tommy789 · Answer

I think it is gay if a Man finds another man attractive

gorydetails · Answer

Not unless your attraction leads you to want to pursue a sexual/romantic relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes that means you're a Maggot!

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