Why Are All Attractive Men Gay?

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***beauty is highly subjective and I'm not calling anybody ugly here, its just rugged ain't my thing***

WHY ARE ALL GUYS WHO I WOULD LIKE TO ASK OUT INDEFINITELY GAY? LOOK AT HIS SHINY SKIN, THE SWEET MANNER HE SPEAKS IN, THE CUTE FIGURE OOF AND THOSE EYES... why is it impossible to find a man like this.. are these guys hiding from me

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

It may be according to your choice of what attractive is. If you like pretty men, maybe a higher percentage of them are gay.

I haven't run into that problem, though a few men I've found attractive were gay. 20 percent of the population is. So about 10 percent of the men hanging around are.

And, how are you finding these men you find attractive? Are you being introduced to them through friends who know you're looking for a straight guy? Or are you just finding them hither and yon? Looking at entertainers? Videos?

A higher percentage of people who are gay or bisexual are in the entertainment industry. Influencers could also be included in this group.

And, of course, entertainment figures will be above average in looks.

So, with these factors, you're going to find a higher percentage of good looking men in these industries who are gay or bisexual.

It's not that all attractive men are gay. Most race car drivers aren't gay. Most farriers aren't gay. Most electricians and plumbers and HVAC workers aren't gay. Most auto mechanics aren't gay. But few of these men feature videos on Instagram or Youtube or TikTok. So, you don't see their faces, or how attractive they are.

You might start looking at videos of car detailers, farriers, auto mechanics and the like. There are lots of good looking horse shoers (farriers). Some good car detailers. Those are two of my favorite videos to watch. I wasn't looking for handsome men. But they're there.

Expand your horizons..

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

Maybe you’ll get lucky and find a bi one. Or an androgynous guy who likes women. Or a tomboy girl who also likes women.

BobbieBoy666 · Accepted Answer

Why Are All Attractive Men Gay?

It is a misconception to say that all attractive men are gay
. Sexual orientation is not determined by attractiveness or physical appearance. Attractiveness is subjective and varies greatly from person to person, and both gay and straight men can be considered attractive.
However, some factors may contribute to the stereotype or impression that gay men are more attractive:
Gay men may prioritize their appearance: Some sources suggest that gay men, traditionally, have placed a greater emphasis on their appearance and self-care, perhaps due to societal expectations and a desire to attract partners in the gay community.
Cultural influences on masculinity and appearance: In some cultures, masculinity has been associated with less attention to appearance, while gay men may feel more comfortable defying those norms.
Media representation: Media portrayals may sometimes reinforce the stereotype of gay men as being particularly stylish or focused on their looks.
It is important to remember that these are generalizations and stereotypes, and they do not accurately reflect the diversity of the gay community or men in general. Many straight men also pay attention to their appearance and health, and many gay men do not conform to the "pretty boy" stereotype. The notion that all attractive men are gay is inaccurate and harmful because it reinforces stereotypes and limits our understanding of individual differences.

matchrestore · Accepted Answer

Hey- I'm attractive, but I'm bisexual!

SotiCoto · Answer

Why did you say "All" when you know it isn't true?
You could have got away with "Most", though "Some" would have been a little weak even if more accurate... but you dived straight in and said "All". I don't believe that was a sensible choice.

Anyway, the impression I generally get is that most hyper-muscular body builder types (i. e. the rugged ones you rightly don't like so much) are gay, whether they're open about it or not. One cannot really obsess so much over the male form and spend all one's free time hanging out with half naked, sweaty men without being gay.

Apple1996 · Answer

Gay and bi men are so fucking hot tbh 🔥🔥 They always look better than straight men so I totally understand your opinion on this. You should try dating bi men they are the best

Lynx122 · Answer

I'm not gay but I slayed a dragon today XD

gstephens91 · Answer

Probably because homosexual men tend to be very materialistic and shallow. There is also a very promiscous culture that is widespread within homosexual peoples that is not widespread amongst heterosexual peoples, and considering that on average men are more focused on external beauty than women are creates an amalgamation that makes it so that homosexual men are very attractive.

Asgard356 · Answer

Lol I've heard this complaint before from other girls 😂

strateguy632 · Answer

Because they take better care of looks, but i am sweet and a chik magnet despite my age.

zagor · Answer

It is probably their behavior and grooming you're finding attractive rather than just their physical appearance. That, I would assume, is mostly the same as straight men.

NathanDavis · Answer

why don't you ask them out either way... aren't you aromantic or something...

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I'm EXTREMELY handsome and ruler-straight. That canard is from fugly schlubs who are jealous of studly, dapper dudes.

HeartShapedHaze · Answer

I feel like this about women who are lesbian lol

Emmytexrex · Answer

Lol not all are gay but I understand what you mean though

Still-alive · Answer

I'm super attractive and definitely not gay source? me. :P

TwoToTooTutu2 · Answer

Gay men and women find different tjings attractive in men. Gay men are trying to be appealing to other gay men.

Boobslover01 · Answer

I'm not gay... send me private message... We can talk...

Nikki1989 · Answer

They are not, though.

Adogdog · Answer

I'm not gay lol

LiamJHayden · Answer

Sounds like confirmation bias.

wkhan_87 · Answer

Not at all lol

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