What tips would you give a shy, quiet, introverted guy who wants to get a girlfriend?

[Physics-Man]

[cth96190]

Read Awaken The Giant Within (Anthony Robbins) and How To Win Friends And Influence People (Dale Carnegie).
Get out and about and be active. Females will not knock on your door, unless they want to sell you cookies. You have to get out and circulate.
Do not pounce on the first female with whom you interact. That is needy and creepy.
Be relaxed, look for indicators of interest (look up YouTube videos about that) and proceed slowly from there.
At some point you will have to ask the (date) question, but do not be in a hurry. Watch YouTube red pill videos about what is known as the abundance mindset.
Be wary of the professional pick-up artists snd their courses. They can offer some useful nuggets of information, but much of what they offer ranges between counterproductive and toxic.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Ignore what everyone else is saying, don't change (you can't anyway, and trying to is going to attract the wrong kind of girl, one who wants the fake you, not the real you).
You need to use dating apps, and make friends with lots of women who share your hobbies, until one of them takes interest. its a lot slower but its much more reliable.

[Physics-Man]

We're similar in terms of interests, and I recall reading that you also had problems finding someone of the opposite sex. I wouldn't be surprised if most people like us are in the same boat. I've considered about traveling to East or Southeast Asia to find a romantic partner.

[Physics-Man]

Which dating apps would you recommend?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Use all of them, even the shitty ones, you catch more fish with a bigger net.
If you are ok with moving then move, I'm too afraid to move, the pressure of having to maintain citizenship for myself or her is too high, otherwise I'd already be in japan or have someone who already likes me move here.

[zeitgeist057]

Unfortunately all those traits did you list are not conducive to meeting and keeping a girl as a girlfriend. If you really value those traits and want to maintain being shy, extra introverted, and quiet.… I have to say you’ll have to figure out a way or a place that you can meet a girl or spend time with a woman on a regular basis. I’m thinking your best bet is to do the friends to lovers route because meeting someone and hooking up with them right away is probably not gonna happen. I’m fantasizing about a scenario like you go to the library every day for a year, and there’s some other introverted, quiet, shy girl who also goes to the same library and you guys flirt with each other in a very introverted and shy way. Eventually, one of you gets the courage up to pass a note to the other and you can slowly get to know each other. One tip I will give you about women is that the more time you spend with them, and the more you talk with them, the more they are going to feel close to you and at that point sure there’s some risk of being friend zoned, but there’s also a chance that it could convert into a romantic relationship. You just have to be supportive, listen well, and also add an element of being attractive. That could be your humor, smelling nice, and taking care of your personal hygiene, and dressing nice, and just being a nice guy. Nice guys don’t always finish last. But sometimes it takes them a long ass time to finish at all, if they even do.

[NathanDavis]

change... face it, don't make it an excuse out of being introverted... it took me about 12 years to change it for myself, and it wasn't out of luck, it was 12 years of constant effort and dedication to change just some things and to face the issues

[slatyb]

Start introducing yourself to people you meet, man or woman. When you are getting a couple of dozen women by name, you will suddenly find dating to be easy. Or you can do what I did and search online. I had good luck with match. com. YMMV.

[Anonymous]

Fuck whores first.

So you will devalue women. Right now shy dude put women in a pedestal.

Once you have sex with at least 4 chicks all women become the same.


You need to grow a pair as well. Your a man your above a woman why are you scared kf them.

Your taller stronger and smarter.

Shy dude are too nice. women don't like nice this isn't a Disney movie.

Go to a strip club or something

[TheSpaceGnome]

Your advice will cause him to be alone and paying child support to a woman who hates him for a kid he can't see.

[boobliker]

try to change or at least get out and look some one may come to you if your out there be nice to every one

[Anonymous]

Get used to being alone. Sorry man, wish I had better news. But with women today unless you fawn all over them you ain't got a shot.

[Anonymous]

I wonder the same, because I'm actually a shy, quiet and introverted guy too.

[Whatthefluff]

You only have one chance at life so be bold.

[Anonymous]

Don't be shy, quiet, or intoverted. If not just get prostitutes

[Iron_Man]

To be aggressive you have to be aggressive