Is it bad to not want to date him again cause he was fat and had a small d*ck?

Question

reasons why I don’t want to see him again:
he’s fat
he isn’t very tall
he has a small you know what
I couldn’t fully enjoy giving him oral because of his weight (I had a better experience with the skinner men) but kissing him was fun is all
he also made me pay for a couple round of drinks which usually isn’t something guys have asked of me in the past

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Feel free to call me a dick, but I feel like dating was better for everyone prior to the obesity epidemic. Like I get seeing past the superficial, and it's super important. Especially if you're judging people you don't plan on dating in the first place. But you generally have to get past a certain threshold of the superficial before it stops mattering. Humans are running way outside of spec so it's only natural that we aren't finding each other as attractive as we used to. We can't adjust THAT fast. And now people flock to the few who meet that superficial standard, rather than most people meeting the standard and personality winning out.

But also what's wrong with paying for your own drinks? Unless he made you pay for his, too. Then yeah that sets off a red flag similar to a girl making me pay for her. We're all adults here.

Chris8586 · Accepted Answer

It isn't bad to not want to date a person because you aren't physically attracted to them.
Love requires an emotional connection AND a physical attraction. I have avoided certain women just because there wasn't enough of a physical attraction for us to be more than friends. However, never tell anyone that you don't want to date them because of their physical appearance. I just don't see the point in degrading them.
I just told the woman that I wasn't in the right mind space for a relationship right now, and it was best for us to just be friends. She didn't hang around for the friendship so whatever.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

You had to pay for "a round of drinks." Going Dutch is usual these days. Seems like he paid for some rounds too, didn't he? You can't pay for one?

It appears you want a taller, thinner man with a larger penis, despite his kissing acumen, who pays for ALL the drinks. Sounds like you've made your decision.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

I can see it now, the guy's version of this question , = "Is it bad to not want to date her again cause she was fat and had small boobs and a fat, hairy, and smelly pussy?" Fat and hairy pussy

Msputiton · Answer

Naw.

He isn't someone you like, it be weird and a bad person to stay with someone you don't like.

Eventually you will get tired of dealing with him, and leave him eventually.

No point in leading him on.

It would be worse to let him get attached and then leave him

Flower7 · Answer

It wasn’t a good idea to go out with him in the first place, since you were already unhappy with his appearance from the beginning. It really shouldn’t have gotten as far as seeing him naked.

And yes, it would be okay to stop seeing him for those reasons. It would never work to try and have a romantic relationship with a guy who you aren’t even attracted to. That would only end badly and waste both of your time.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Yeah, valid. You have your reasons and they were enough for you to make a decision - your happiness and satisfaction are important in the long run.

You gave it a try, and decided you didn't like. That's totally fine.

dorksided1 · Answer

if he asked you to pay for a couple of round of drinks and you were offended why did you choose to give him oral?

laraWM · Answer

If you don't like, don't see him. It is what people do, I think it is better than seeing someone you don't like

spartan55 · Answer

This isn't a 'good' or 'bad' type question. If you don't want to date him then don't. You don't owe anyone your attention.

Bratsondanielle · Answer

Lol well... uhm... if he doesn't satisfy you then you shouldn't see him of course... let's say it that way...

ronaldo75 · Answer

It's not wrong, no. Dont any fat guys again though, no matter how much of a rut you fall in later on. You're kinda lame and as you get older men will start to dry up for you - do NOT go out with another fat dude.

slatyb · Answer

You aren't attracted to him. You don't owe him a second date, no matter how nice he is.

007kingifrit · Answer

you... don't date for the right reasons. you are going to waste your best years and then be unable to get a quality man as you'll be too old (30 is too old)

Emilyis · Answer

It sounds to me that you and the fat guy deserved one another.

Anonymous · Answer

People can choose not to date for whatever reason they wish. It's up to them. But if you carry on this way, it will only lead to misery (casual sex). That I can guarantee...

Anonymous · Answer

You were ok until you became a height queen. And expected him to be a free drink machine/ bank account Now you just sound like an entitled c word.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not bad, you can't force yourself to like someone you're not a good match with. I sure wouldn't date someone too big or too loose. We all have different things we like, hate, or don't care about

User_69 · Answer

Can you explain small dick? What cm and what must be?

Anonymous · Answer

So what's your advice for guys with small dicks then?

Vendela · Answer

Everyone has their preferences.

OddBeMe · Answer

I don’t get why you can’t talk to me directly!

legalboxers · Answer

everyone has their likes

michael1469 · Answer

Sounds shallow to me...

lildkman1090 · Answer

I’m skinny and small

Beerluvr · Answer

If you don’t like him then don’t go back with him.

Sour-rose · Answer

No, lol

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