Hey everyone, I'm a short guy almost 5'7, probably more like 5'6 in night. I like working out and staying fit as I find it as a good habit.
I'm very insecure because it's just the fact that I can't change my height. I can change my weight, I can change other stuff, I have a defined jawline as well. But it seems like almost every girl would prefer a tall guy over a short one. This makes me even more insecure. I know a lot of people are gonna say just be yourself, but it doesn't change the fact that I'll still be undesirable no matter what I achieve in life.
Secondly a lot of people tell me to not be picky because I'm short. But my only criteria in girls is just them being fit as I associate it with being active and doing their work properly.
Should I be picky or not, I don't know. It seems like even the short fit girls would go for a tall guy.
What would you tell me to deal with this? And please don't be rude.
I'm very insecure because it's just the fact that I can't change my height. I can change my weight, I can change other stuff, I have a defined jawline as well. But it seems like almost every girl would prefer a tall guy over a short one. This makes me even more insecure. I know a lot of people are gonna say just be yourself, but it doesn't change the fact that I'll still be undesirable no matter what I achieve in life.
Secondly a lot of people tell me to not be picky because I'm short. But my only criteria in girls is just them being fit as I associate it with being active and doing their work properly.
Should I be picky or not, I don't know. It seems like even the short fit girls would go for a tall guy.
What would you tell me to deal with this? And please don't be rude.
