The only men who seem interested in me are much older than me and rich. Why is that?

[Tinytina09]

Can a 25 year old date a 40 year old seriously?

[Finchie40]

I am 44 and not that age really matters that much to me but through my experiences with relationships through out my life I come to a point that I prefer a younger girl , only reason is cuz I feel with what I learned and experienced through out my life with relationships I was a different person in my 20’s , if I knew then what I knew now I feel that some of the Girls that I dated in my 20’s , we would of had a better connection and the relationship with each other would of been better , instead of being selfish and butting heads with each other. So liking younger girl’s mainly comes down to feeling like we can treat her the way she deserves to be treated instead of her being treated like shit from guys her age , cuz we were that age once and we know how we treated girls then , Men mainly want a girl that looks up to him , that’s what mainly attracts girls to guys in the first place , If we find a beautiful girl that looks up to us and is loyal to us we feel like we hit the jackpot. Plus we love sex, a younger girl is more active in bed then most girl’s are age. So that’s mainly why older guys like younger girls , it feels like a better connection cuz we feel like we can save her from all the heart break she more than likely will encounter with dating guys her age. So the chemistry and connection is better cuz she finally met a man that listens to her instead of just thinking with his dick and is selfish , I have met younger girls that I had amazing chemistry with , they have told me they were attracted to my maturity and that I actually listened to them compared to guys their age and that I was honest with them , the only problem I have with younger girls today is that most of them are selfish , they will give me amazing sex but when it comes down to commitment they don’t really know what that means , so I am seeking one that knows what that means , in todays world with social media , things are a lot different and I feel relationships are doomed for the most part because most people do not know how to remove selfishness they only really think of themselves , but I keep trying with hopes she is out there

[Avicenna]

Are you bothered by this or merely curious? Wealthy guys around 40 always want younger women, so I don't see what's noteworthy about that. And you must be doing something right to pique their interest. That said, there is nothing stopping you from approaching the guys you are interested in (in fact, I recommend it).

[nice-girl]

They are just the ones who have the confidence to approach you.
I dated a 39 years old man when I was 21. He proposed me for marriage but I just couldn’t at 21. Didn’t expect that.
So it might be a problem but 25 I think it’s a little more different than 21.

[Tinytina09]

LOL some other guys on here in response to my question were like “maybe it’s because you’re below average in looks”

[KaschKarryskype]

Awe. That's B. S. That's just some jealous hate, from your admirers. They're always frustrated, because these guys be pursuing... who? You,. and, af too. Don't even validate thier words, leave them for the obvious lies, that they are.

[KaschKarryskype]

They're are just some mean people, out here. looking for a heart to step on. It's hard enough, as it is.

[Sonorous]

Are you below average in looks? Because older guys do tend to settle more.

[Tinytina09]

No I’m a model. Way above average.

[Tinytina09]

Also, notice how I said older AND rich. Not just older :)

[Sonorous]

Oh okay, maybe they're the types of guys that don't get intimidated by your good looks then?

[Tinytina09]

Not sure.

[Sonorous]

Iono then. But I wish hot dudes were into me

[Sonorous]

oh what I would let elon musk do to me

[KaschKarryskype]

Love, knows no age, distance, obstacles, or imposters. Love is a form of higher power, that never needs our permission,

[VikingWarLord]

In foreign countries, this is the NORM.

It's only in the West where the age gap is a big deal

[Tinytina09]

I am attracted to older men but I worry what my mom would think if I went out with a 40 year old.

[Akpos]

Yes, may be the youngers are afraid to come to you, thinking you will turn them down

[Tinytina09]

I don’t think they’re attracted to me. They’re usually pretty passive. Older guys seem a little more aggressive on average.

[ArtemisSilver]

It's pretty common actually. Personally I like to date a bit younger than my own age.

[Intothevoid666]

I think it’s possible to have a significant age gap and it be a healthy relationship but it’s def harder.

[oldermale]

My ex and I were those exact ages when we got together

[NYlatefun]

I think so, I’ve dated women 20 years younger than me. And it’s been nice.

[ChiTownLov]

It seems to be a norm now a days. It all comes down to what you find attractive in a guy.

[Anonymous]

Probably because those are the only ones you're baiting.

[Chiarac2003]

Confidence is why there rich.

[Sam_The_Savage]

What's wrong in that?

[Tinytina09]

Nothing but I worry about what my parents would think if I date a guy 15 years older than me.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Hmm. So you choose dates by asking parents? R u sure you're 25 ?

[Tinytina09]

I’m definitely 25 LOL. But eventually they’d meet my family right?

[Sam_The_Savage]

Nope... it's just a date.
Where you from?

[Anonymous]

What's wrong with that?

[Tinytina09]

I think a lot of men are intimidated by me because I’m so put together and wear expensive things. So maybe those are the only bold ones

[zagor]

Maybe you are only noticing rich men?

[Tinytina09]

Well I’m a high earner too so I happen to be around them a lot (I. e. same industry, high end gym, high end shopping mall, nice bars/restaurants, nice area of town)

[Luckycharms12]

Maybe there not only ones that want you

[Tinytina09]

I struggle with self esteem and think no one is interested in me romantically. I’m too hard on myself, or maybe it’s true.

[Luckycharms12]

Younger guys are interested in you as well as older

[jasco]

They want attention and sex

[Iron_Man]

Yes of course not a problem

[Anonymous]

Of course they can you are both adults.

[AFretiredTXn]

Sure just need to find compatibility.

[jimmy2]

Go for the money then

[clemdenim]

Date anyone you want