Mid Feb a coworker popped up on my Hinge account. He is a joker and I think he is super cute so I added him in a teasing manner. Since that day we've talked on texting or one of many social media platforms almost every day. There has been once we got up to about a week without talking. We've hung out a few times most alone, once in a group. I told him I wouldn't be able to hang out for a while because i needed my tax return to come in which is true. Our communication stayed up the whole time. I live much further from work than he does and he is always offering to let me crash. I finally took him up on the offer a couple weeks ago. I wanted to have sex with him but my period started that day and I still don't know how he feels. He washed the sheets of HIS bed for me to sleep in there with him. I mentioned if he wanted me to sleep on the couch and he quickly looked away, clinched his jaw and said "whatever you are comfortable with". I slept with him but nothing happen. The next morning was great talk and full of laughs. Like I caught him watching me get my breakfast together grinning. I said "what?" He goes "nothing" Still grinning. Gave me a huge hug before I left. He went into work later than me so he brought coffee cause he knew I didn't get much sleep. Everything normal. Then last week I tell him how much I appreciate him and glad I have him in my life. He said "haha no problem". That night he posted a meme on IG talking about "not believing people love you due to past relationship trauma". No texts or snaps for days. I don't know what to do. I did get him a small gift of his fav show to leave in his bag at work but I don't know. Did I come on to strong with that one comment or accidentally friend zone him?
Did I scare him off or accidentally friend zone my crush?
