I really really REALLY want to get a girlfriend but work from home and have no friends?

[Anonymous]

I live in a new city with my sister and don’t know anyone and can barely go out cause working from home takes a lot of my time.

i really don’t like much people and prefer to be indoors and DONT like just going up to people in bars or clubs and just start taking.

i want a serious girlfriend and kids how do I go about this

[boggboss]

Changing as your lifestyle and what u like gives u no chances at getting a partner

[Asker]

What about online dating to
Get the ball rolling

[boggboss]

U can try but if u are not able to go out and meet people I don't imagin u have that good social skills which makes online dating harder plus the aspect that online dating is harder on guys and it's heavily based on looks

[Asker]

I do have good social skills I mean i have to deal with people in my job zoom meetings and communication it’s just I don’t go out of my way to make friends

[boggboss]

Yet zoom meeting and meeting irl play vary different

[Asker]

I spent over 3 years in a high marketing position dealing with multiple people daily face to face it’s just now I’m walking off location

[boggboss]

And how much of that time was spent 1to1 with a women u was attracted to and was trying to see if she was attracted to you I'm not saying u can't be social when it comes to work I'm saying when it comes to friends or potential partners

[ShakTreblat]

I can understand where you’re coming from cuz I’m a bit of a homebody. But come on. You can’t expect to make any friends let alone a girlfriend without putting in any kind of effort into going out and meeting people.

[slatyb]

Find a group doing something you enjoy and go participate. Or try online dating. It worked for me.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Relatable.

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[In_Trance]

Go out and meet people