Hoe come my homeless friend gets the girls but I don't?

[Almost_Incel]

I have a homeless friend I took in. He is 22 and short in height like me. Although, he has already been in 3 relationships before and he is talking to a couple girls right now, some of which are flirty with him.

Meanwhile, I am 27, almost 28, and I never had a real girlfriend. I haven't touched a girl in over 7 years. He is asexual, yet had sex with more than one woman in his lifetime.

Yes, I am heavyset, but he is underweight and has no muscle mass.

What the actual FUCK!

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Is it because he has blue eyes and a nicer face, while I have brown eyes and a somewhat average face?

Really... what the fuck?

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The question is "How come..." by the way. Sry, typo.

[Anonymous]

Well like us with women, it's not ALL about looks. Maybe he's just got a personality girls like or are drawn to? Is he really outgoing? Likes talking to people in general? Stuff like that. Women see that as "confidence", even though it may not be lol, and what many say they look for. But as a guy, I feel ya lol, some of the guys I see women with it's like "really?", you actually find him attractive? Don't get it either. Women will always baffle us I think. They certainly don't make "sense" sometimes lol.

[Ihatethewill]

Your username seems to apply to this case.
Number one: you're worry about this guy too much. "hE GeTs AAl tHE gIRLs aND I DOnT BOOo hOooO". You sound like you use reddit on a daily basis. That behavior is unattractive. Do you think the girls that he attracts want a whiny 27 year old kissless virgin who isn't going out of his way to improve his sexual market value? NO.
Number two: the homeless guy could have more experience with women. Charisma is not something everyone has, but he musy be really good with charisma if he's pulling women while being homeless. Instead of worrying about his success in romance, why dont you improve on your own?

[Anonymous]

Maybe because he’s confident or maybe he doesn’t only specifically only seek out girls who’s never had their first love before lol he has plenty of options to choose from bc he doesn’t restrict himself

[Chiarac2003]

I’m sorry… some guys have a good “bs” routine and girls eat it up. Sorry hun

[ChrisOfTheAlienRace]

Different people are good at different things.
For me it helped that I grew up around my older sister and her friends. I think it makes you comfortable around girls. Then I spent lots of time hanging out with my older brother and his girlfriends. It was easy for me to talk to girls in school and at parties.
Your experiences give you a certain amount of social skills.
Maybe your homeless friend has those social skills?

[Almost_Incel]

Maybe so. I am not the best at flirting with girls. Maybe he has charisma that I don't.

[ChrisOfTheAlienRace]

It really is an art form that certain people develop. Especially if they aren't the big jock with movie star looks. If they want women they have to figure out how to be charming.
They draw on their experiences and natural instincts. It's trial and error and takes years of practice.
Eventually you have a certain amount of charisma, sense of humor, you're smooth, patient, and capable of exhibiting an attractive personality. If you aren't perfect looking you gotta have something to win her over.
Your friend is pulling women while homeless.
That's a true master there.

[ChrisOfTheAlienRace]

When I was that age I had a hot girlfriend while having a janitor job.
I thought that was impressive. LoL!

[RV2121]

Having blue eyes helps a lot. Women are attracted to handsome men and that's a fact. If he's handsome and he's thin then also he can get girls.

Also you're heavy so start working out on that as it's under your control. Being underweight is better than overweight.

Other than that ask your parents and friends to set you up with someone as that's your only option at 28

[Jamie05rhs]

Because now he has a place to live. Since you took him in lol. And I bet he still doesn't have a job, does he? So of course he's getting girls. He has nothing else holding him back. He hasn't a care in the world!
He's a freeloader and he's living for himself. He doesn't give a shit.

[Anonymous]

He's not whiny and he has charismatic way.

Which you don't have. Women like danger and a fixer upper, or somebody who do t give a damn.
You still care about women


Just go ahead lean into the black pill more and pay for it in legal countries. It feel better once you give up on women

[mobiusforniner]

Because you're focused on comparing yourself with others instead of developing or accepting yourself. Your homeless friend feels more genuine so he gets girls...

[Anonymous]

Kick him out man. He’s got no problem getting some trim. Let him sponge off them for a while.

[Anonymous]

Reminds me a part of Elliot Rodger's manifesto that got me very mad

[Anonymous]

Charisma.