What you think about a 45 years old dating 20 years old?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Anything over a 10 year difference I think is a little creepy. My sister is married to a guy that is 25 years older than her... but she will admit it because he is a lot like my dad and my dad was a really amazing person. I mean my dad was 1 in a million type of person. And my brother in-law is a lot like my dad.

When got married she was 35 and he was 60 years old, so in some ways its not creepy really. In my sisters case he really treats her super well and they are really happy together. But she confesses to me that when they got married ago she always knew that a day would come... now that she's almost 50 and he is 75 she's coming to the reality that she will have to deal with the fact that she will die alone... because they never had kids.

So honestly when I see a 45 year old marry a 20 year old I think, good for the 45 year old!!! But I always suspect that the women has daddy issues of some type, sometime good and sometimes not, or the 20 old guy or girls is a gold digger. Honestly there a lot more younger women with older guys then you ever see 60 year old women with 40 year old men, and when you do a see a guy with an older women you think he must be a gold digger or has some other serious type issues.

EmbraceThePain · Accepted Answer

I don’t really care.  I hope their personalities and characters are compatible and they get along well with one another.

KelleyNice · Accepted Answer

At the age of 13, for the sum of 5 camels, the father of Waris Dirie (later a super model) sold her to be married by a man old enough to be her grandfather. The young bride escaped by running away from home.

In Western countries, fathers don't sell their 13 year old daughters. However, throughout history, money from older men buys youth and beauty. Therefore, it is where 20 year old girls sell their youth and beauty in exchange for money or position and things money will buy from older men with money.

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

when i was in my late 20's i used to date older men because i liked wearing mini dresses for them and giving them lots of head... i was very kinky in that way and enjoyed it... older men are very grateful if you give them blowjobs... they're incredibly nice and incredibly grateful.

Anonymous · Answer

I would say they both hit the jackpot.

What you think about a 45 years old dating 20 years old?

I thought it was so funny when people said that Anna Nicole Smith was just using her husband for money.

Anna wanted money, and hubby wanted honey... good for both of them.

shaysh87 · Answer

I would question the 45 years old's intention on why they're dating someone soo young. Usually when this happens it usually means there is something wrong with the 45 yr old. Or the 45 yr old is just using this 20 yr old kid for sex.

Even if a relationship or marriage does happen (unlikely), it won't last. I don't know of many 35 yr olds who are happy being married to 60 yr olds.

TrueConfection · Answer

Seems doomed. He'll turn into an old man while she's still young and attractive and he'll likely get tired of her and find another fresh young girl, or he'll look for someone closer to his own age if he gets intellectually bored.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I think it’s perfect, more women should enjoy younger guys.

For the girl and a man, I feel pity for a girl. Has she ever been with a 22-25 years old guy? They are Greek Gods in bed. Why’d you miss that out?

Sharonhere96 · Answer

Nothing wrong with it as long as they both get along and neither are being forced or hurt.

Emilyis · Answer

Just STUPID! look at Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes. They never really had anything in common. He was just a horny male.

Anonymous · Answer

wtf does a 45 year old need out of a 20 year old? probably only sex. like... completely different stages of life. don't do that... if this is even serious, it likely won't last long anyways. you're throwing away your youth on some old dude.

ChooChooHaha · Answer

As long as you both are adults, it's all consensual, and neither of you are doing anything nefarious, I don't really care. None of my business.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

In a nutshell.

Adronicus · Answer

Not a thing if it's consensual. Many younger woman seem to be attracted to me, irl anyway. Unfortunately they like to play mindgames & too confused about what they're after & I lose all interest.

exitseven · Answer

they are consenting adults so it is okay. The guy is probably a divorced rich guy looking for a trophy wife.

whereismyjohnny · Answer

I find it a bit weird but to each their own, I guess.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

A little bit awkward, to be honest. That's a significant age gap and they would most likely be in different stages in their life, both physically and socially.

Texasgal95 · Answer

Not for me to be honest that’s practically dating my father

TheLoneTerran · Answer

If they're both consenting adults, it's none of my business.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Love is love & as long as both people are happy that is all that counts.

Pudsmucker · Answer

If you love the person it doesn't matter. Don't marry him just because they've got money. Just remember if he's been married his ex's children have first dibs on any inheritance.

slatyb · Answer

How did they meet? I'm leery of older men that hit on very young women.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

As long as they both love each other, nothing wrong with it!

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Too much of an age gap for me to not see it as kinda weird, especially at 20 years old.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

Doesn't bother me as long they are both consensual adults and neither aren't taking advantage of the others let love be love.

sheikalana · Answer

I thin they must be very much in love and have a lot of things in common.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Personally, I find it a waste of time. But they don't hurt me - so: whatever :)

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

I think it's disgusting... they immediately lose my respect and I don't think highly of them

Twalli · Answer

If you were going through puberty or past puberty when the other person was born, they're too young for you.

IsoUser · Answer

I personally prefer dating younger girls and I don't see a problem with that as long as both partners agree.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Nothing really. Its a much bigger gap than my current relationship which is 16 year gap but seems fine to me.

katejordan · Answer

According to me love has no age... but as welll as that much age difference can cause trouble i relationships tooo as problem would be not matching his or her thoughts

Vegasrunner · Answer

It's much more common than a 40 year old woman dating a 20 year old man.

one1wild00 · Answer

Why not, I've had friends with larger age gaps than that. and they were great together.

Jerre · Answer

I don’t see anything wrong with it. I have dated many 20 year old women, several only 18.

driven159 · Answer

If that makes them happy there is enough unhappy people now a days

Tellme · Answer

Nothing, as long as both enjoy it and are happy with it.

OddBeMe · Answer

Doesn’t work out well for the 20 yr olds…quelle surprise.

lofii · Answer

I think I mind my business, unless it's my daughter.

Anonymous · Answer

When you are 40+, you’ll be wanting young guys too. Up to you.

Anonymous · Answer

As long as both people are happy , it's no one's business except for gossiping, old, jealous, bitter women.

Anonymous · Answer

I know girls who dated 41-42 while being 20-21, they found those guys attractive so I am no one to judge.

Anonymous · Answer

Done that before, wasn’t too bad , sex was great, people would look at us funny at times

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Not for it. But they're both adults

Avicenna · Answer

They’re consenting adults, so good for them.

DermalPunch · Answer

Nothing wrong with it.

NYlatefun · Answer

I’ve done it, it’s fun, nothing wrong about it.

Gollum · Answer

Why not? If they are happy together.

Xtendable · Answer

If they’re both happy, why not

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Is the 45 year old a guy or a girl

Anonymous · Answer

I think you ask this question far too many times.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

They could be their parent. That age gap is huge.

nawtee_me · Answer

yes please, would you like to go out?

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Probably to much of age gap to work long term

xJayleenx · Answer

That’s a bit past my limit

rachel776 · Answer

ok by me

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

Nothing, that's their choice.

Anonymous · Answer

As long as it's consensual

clemdenim · Answer

If that is what they want

just_a_potato · Answer

kinkyyy

alice55 · Answer

It's ok

Smashingdoozy · Answer

I just threw up

Sour-rose · Answer

Cougar.  >:3c

jimmy2 · Answer

No problem it's like me and my girlfriend she 43

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