You're dating someone who has kids?

[Anonymous]

You were never really comfortable with the idea. But the person you're dating is amazing and you both just connect in every way possible- more than any person you have dated in the past.
Do you continue?

Yes why not

No I would find someone with less baggage

[Anonymous]

No I don't date women with kids.

She has too many issues.

Her baby's father didn't want her or the kids.

The kids gonna have daddy issues.

The mom gonna bring strange men around the kids.

I want my OWN family unless I adopt

I vibe with almost everyone so that's not draw to me.

Her baby father might be the jealous type

She might still have feeling for the baby father

[Asker]

True

[Opinion Owner]

She should try to fix things with her Ex. If he was good enough for no condom then he's good enough for y'all to stay together for 16 years

[Asker]

What if she's already divorce?

[Opinion Owner]

How old see the kids.

[Asker]

5 and 7

[Opinion Owner]

Not worth it. Still maybe a older man might date a single mom like a dude in his 40s.
Or a dude with kids of his own

[Asker]

What if its a girl dating a guy with kids? So the kids stays with the mom like 60% of the time

[Opinion Owner]

Women date men for different reason men date women. So I can't really say.

[Vikkrram]

See if the person is cheating wid her better half then it's obviously a big no. But if you both are connceting really well and if he is looking you as an potential partner then you can carry on.

[Asker]

How would you know if there's cheating going on

[Vikkrram]

Like if he has a wife then how he can date anyone until they are divorced. I think that's called cheating.